I fed off a flowerperson, and I spent the next six hours watchin' my hand move.

Spike ,'Same Time, Same Place'


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beth b - Jul 08, 2014 9:47:48 am PDT #1557 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

That's horrible sarameg


-t - Jul 08, 2014 9:53:29 am PDT #1558 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I am in the same boat, shrift. Although mine came with a side of self-doubt that I hope yours did not.


lisah - Jul 08, 2014 10:02:02 am PDT #1559 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Our friend who entered hospice care last week passed away last night. Bob was able to spend time with her Sunday night so we're thankful for that. She was a truly lovely lady and a great baker, amongst other things, & she will be deeply missed. She owned a cafe in Chicago until her illness forced her to sell. Swim Cafe, in case any of our Chicago-istas know it. Anyway, thank you all for your kind thoughts.

Jesse, I literally had "I'm Sorry" stuck in my head when I read your post. Still is stuck! Which is not helping me not cry at work.


sarameg - Jul 08, 2014 10:08:32 am PDT #1560 of 30000

Oh, lisah, I'm sorry.

(which probably really didn't help you just not cry at work.)


javachik - Jul 08, 2014 10:10:24 am PDT #1561 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh man, Lisa. I am sorry.


-t - Jul 08, 2014 10:11:41 am PDT #1562 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm sorry to hear that, lisah.


SuziQ - Jul 08, 2014 10:21:31 am PDT #1563 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I know I've mentioned that CJ does ride alongs with the fire department, typically with the med team. He came home late Saturday after a shift and didn't want to talk about his last call.

Today he finally shared - it was a response to a 4 year old who had drowned in a local lake. Seven EMTs worked on the kid in the back of the ambulance while CJ helped the driver navigate to the hospital. He had been in the lake for 30 minutes before he was found and was declared dead at the hospital.

My heart breaks for the family. And for my kid, having to witness that. But knowing he wants to go into emergency services, this is just the first. It sucks but knowing how passionate he is about wanting to help people and do what he can to prevent such tragic endings helps.


meara - Jul 08, 2014 10:32:42 am PDT #1564 of 30000

Oh man, poor kid and poor CJ and poor EMTs. That's gotta be hard.

Sara, people are losing accrued vacation time?? That is so not on. Damn. No chance you can get some similar but differently-contracted position?

I am hungry and want to go eat but am waiting on people to make updates or meet with me. But I'm worried maybe they went to lunch and didn't tell me. Ugh.


SuziQ - Jul 08, 2014 10:38:55 am PDT #1565 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Meara - one benefit of summer vacation and me working from home - I can get CJ to bring me lunch. I still end up eating/working but at least I'm not hungry.


lisah - Jul 08, 2014 10:41:08 am PDT #1566 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Oh, that's rough, Suzi.

That's a vendor that I'm firing later this year (we are not renewing a contract for software. And yes, they know

They are also the company that was fired from the project I'm on last year. I thought their business model was taking government money and either notdoing the work or doing terrible work and asking for additional money to fix their screwups. I didn't realize it was private industry they were doing this to as well.