Oh wait, need to count a few blessings: 1) kids have been very affectionate and snuggly, 2) best husband on Earth.
Have you ever been with a warrior woman?
Wash ,'Bushwhacked'
Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Burrell - Oct 20, 2013 6:16:29 pm PDT #9608 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
sj - Oct 20, 2013 6:20:54 pm PDT #9609 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
There has to be somewhere where you can say that this has been hard and this is the place.
What Ginger said. {{{Burrell}}} I'm sorry this is so hard.
Atropa - Oct 20, 2013 6:21:18 pm PDT #9610 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
There has to be somewhere where you can say that this has been hard and this is the place.
This is very true. I'm sorry, Burrell.
Consuela - Oct 20, 2013 6:21:36 pm PDT #9611 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
I feel like I do nothing but vent these days.
And as sarameg said, that's okay. (Also, probably not really true, even if it feels like it.) It's okay to feel that way, and it's ok to vent about it.
Burrell - Oct 20, 2013 6:29:13 pm PDT #9612 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
I'm also at the point where I need to ask for a few accommodations from work. I'm kinda overwhelmed.
le nubian - Oct 20, 2013 6:31:28 pm PDT #9613 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
do it. you have been running on fumes for weeks.
Kat - Oct 20, 2013 6:42:19 pm PDT #9614 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
Good lord, Burrell, vent away. Better to vent then to implode or explode.
Typo Boy - Oct 20, 2013 6:47:51 pm PDT #9615 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Pain tolerance is weird. I always thought of my self as having high pain tolerance and various experiences with extractions under local (including one case where the whatevercain wore off during the extraction and they asked me if I wanted them to numb me again, and I said "just finish")seemed to confirm it. But when it comes bulging discs pressing on my nerve I am a total wimp - need tramadol to tolerate it. So apparently pain tolerance can vary with body part.
Pix - Oct 20, 2013 6:54:01 pm PDT #9616 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
Oh, damn. Burrell, it's ok. It's ok to complain, it's ok to hurt, it's ok to be tired, it's ok to be conflicted, it's ok to be goddamned mad, it's just ok. OK?
What sarameg said. I'm so sorry you're going through this, Burrell. DO what you need to do, which definitely includes asking for some help at work.
WindSparrow - Oct 20, 2013 7:13:21 pm PDT #9617 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Burrell, Happy birthday. And I'm glad that you have this safe place to vent so that you can be in good-sister mode where you have to be.
Happy birthday, Calli.
I have an untrustworthy pain tolerance. For things that creep up gradually, I don't really feel it until I'm about to fall over. I've had people point out some illness or other condition and I sort of resented it because I was doing ok until they said something. That may be a feature of my AD/HD brain - hyperfocus on tasks at hand, ignoring everything else including pain. But sudden things hurt hurty McHurt Hurt. Tears come to my eyes for papercuts.