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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Oct 03, 2013 2:55:59 pm PDT #7809 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I, at least, am on the side of the goddamn angels.

Yes you are!

Oh jeez, mac. But also, why hasn't the school reached out to you directly?


Amy - Oct 03, 2013 2:56:57 pm PDT #7810 of 30000
Because books.

Oh, man. I agree with Jesse, though -- how come nobody at school is in touch? That's absurd.


billytea - Oct 03, 2013 3:01:28 pm PDT #7811 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I think this differs from the 95/96 showdown, though, because it's a minority of the Republican minority who's taking such a hard line. I don't see how the more vulnerable Republicans will be able to stick with it.

Yeah, last go-round the Repubs were united, they had an actual blueprint for governing (that "Contract with America" thing), they'd just won a genuine rather than gerrymandered majority; they were in a position of some strength. And the general consensus is still that they got roundly blamed by the electorate for the shutdown and it helped ensure Clintons's re-election in '96. I have no idea what the curent disunited, shambolic mob of crybabies with their irrational, unachievable demands think they're going to get out of this. (Actually, I'm pretty sure Boehner doesn't expect to get anything good out of this, he's just pandering to extremists to keep his job. Though why he wants it when this is what it entails is beyond me.)


Connie Neil - Oct 03, 2013 3:05:01 pm PDT #7812 of 30000
brillig

I expect some politician spanking going on over the weekend, when the main focus of the media will be elsewhere.

For Mike Lee of Utah, this weekend is the big fall conference of the Mormon Church, so he may be in Salt Lake having meetings with the church bigwigs. It's an open secret around here that the LDS Church does have tight "advisory" links to Utah politicians.


Calli - Oct 03, 2013 3:13:44 pm PDT #7813 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Yeah, if US people can afford to donate to their local food banks, around now would be a good time. I believe most donations are tax deductible.


msbelle - Oct 03, 2013 3:19:37 pm PDT #7814 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

English has called me twice, homework wasn't done (call 1). Classwork wasn't getting done (call 2). Math called once, he was missing homework and never turned in one classwork.

English homework got done and I was told was fine (he made a 10!!!). Match homework got done and the classwork was excuse after excuse, then substitutes, leading up to me today telling him WHEN I DROPPED HIM OFF "go straight to Match class this morning before school starts and get the classwork done". He tells me tonight that the teacher says the 6 weeks are over and it is too late.

I am calling the English, TX History, and Math teachers tomorrow. He may need to be in afterschool tutoring for a while.

The schools are really focused on the kids learning to be responsible for their own work - a counter to the hovering parent syndrome, I think. The do not check that kids are writing assignments down. They do more stuff in class, so there is less homework. They have told the kids that they are responsible for going to teachers before or after school to make up or do work over. I get it and I should be looking at the online thing every few days I guess.


Jesse - Oct 03, 2013 3:29:46 pm PDT #7815 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ai yai yai. Sounds like you're going to have to ride him.


le nubian - Oct 03, 2013 3:35:10 pm PDT #7816 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

oh msbelle! Wow.

The government shutdowns (that were not over a weekend and thus incurred limited damage) was the '96 one and 3 in the 1970s. The 1970s ones were about 3 weeks each.

When this went on longer than 2 days, I figured we were in for a 3 week one this time. I'm worried that the extreme GOP don't take any of this seriously (the damage it can incur) and therefore are not really willing to raise the debt limit.


msbelle - Oct 03, 2013 4:15:19 pm PDT #7817 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Well, emails were written to teachers, teacher webpages have been bookmarked, and the.punishment has been given. FML.


SuziQ - Oct 03, 2013 4:23:25 pm PDT #7818 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

He did not manage to ever get the make-up classwork done in match class that we started a sag on over a week ago.

Not sure what a sag is, but I have a 17 year old with this issue.

He once again had no work brought home.

And this.

I made him come with me to check to parent online grade access

And this.

AND HE IS FAILING 3 CLASSES.

And this. It sucks mightily.

The schools are really focused on the kids learning to be responsible for their own work - a counter to the hovering parent syndrome, I think. The do not check that kids are writing assignments down. They do more stuff in class, so there is less homework. They have told the kids that they are responsible for going to teachers before or after school to make up or do work over. I get it and I should be looking at the online thing every few days I guess.

And this, this, this, and this.

I have told him I'm done. If he can't manage to get his work done and fails classes, I can't do a darned thing and if he has to repeat a year of high school...he made the bed.

But it is infuriating. I went to parent teacher night last week and two of those three teachers acted like there wasn't a real issue. The third teacher is a new chemistry teacher of Asian descent. And for her, the stereotypes hold true. Not that that excuses CJ not doing his work. At all. He is grounded from anything outside school and work (he teaches at the dojo).