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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Fred Pete - Sep 26, 2013 4:27:49 am PDT #6689 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

My GP, therapist, med manager (the modern way to refer to a psychiatrist), and dentist are all female. Never planned it that way -- it just happened.

First names reflect more on the parents' choices than the bearers. Although I wouldn't be surprised if Dr. Apple Martini goes by Dr. A. Sandra Martini, at least professionally.


billytea - Sep 26, 2013 4:30:06 am PDT #6690 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Although I wouldn't be surprised if Dr. Apple Martini goes by Dr. A. Sandra Martini, at least professionally.

After he went to all the trouble of changing his name in the first place?! Never!


Jessica - Sep 26, 2013 4:51:38 am PDT #6691 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

After one disastrous experience picking an OB from a list provided by my insurance company, I chose my current OB based on gender (female), hospital affiliation (NOT NY Methodist), and reviews on ZocDoc. And I love her, as it turns out!

"Is on ZocDoc" is a prereq for me, because I do not like the telephone. From there, I filter by female doctors, office hours, and location.

Of course, since choosing my kid's pediatrician AND my PCP, both have stopped taking online appointments, and then my PCP moved to an office that is significantly less convenient than the one I originally went to, but hey, life.

Fortunately I did not choose my OB or GP by first name, because I can't pronounce either one. (OB is Katarzyna, GP is Emefre.)


§ ita § - Sep 26, 2013 5:07:51 am PDT #6692 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I do not know my orthos' first name, and I only know his last name the day of the appointment. Burrell picked my first GP, and my second GP was "who has an appointment soon in the same office?" My migraine doctors were a) the first neuro my GP mentioned, the second neuro the first neuro mentioned, another neuro the first neuro mentioned, an ENT two nurses mentioned. I think there's an Ernestine and a Charles and a Baldeep in the bunch, but even though there are a broad mix of ethnicities, there's not a strong accent to be had.

I've rarely known the name of ER doctors, but never had accent problems there either. I'd never even thought about it as an issue. Doctors in this nabe tend to be all about the Miss and the Mrs, so they don't use my first name, I don't use theirs, so if I am presented with two all else equal choices (never happened yet), maybe it subconsciously affects my coin toss?

I might as well pick based on their star sign, because Dr Alice Watson might very well be using Alice as her English name and married into Watson and have a thick whatever accent. How would I know? I'd just ditch her after the first unsatisfactory appointment, and that would suck. But given the docs I've had, evaluating names wouldn't give me accent information.

I want asshole information. I want front desk information. I want timely response information. Name? Please.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 5:08:21 am PDT #6693 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

There was a Katarzyna on Top Model one season! And no one there could pronounce her name, either.


Hil R. - Sep 26, 2013 5:09:47 am PDT #6694 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I knew a Katarzyna, but she just pronounced it like Katarina.


billytea - Sep 26, 2013 5:14:57 am PDT #6695 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I was very happy with the doctor I first found on my return to Melbourne, until he moved over the river. Then I found out that he'd previously been fined and disciplined for overservicing patients.


Jessica - Sep 26, 2013 5:17:35 am PDT #6696 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I want asshole information. I want front desk information. I want timely response information.

Yes, these.


Dana - Sep 26, 2013 5:23:50 am PDT #6697 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Here, if anyone is having a bad day, I will fix it.

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msbelle - Sep 26, 2013 5:26:53 am PDT #6698 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I totally choose by location and office hours. I prefer female drs for female things and am now trying to make sure mac has a male GP, other than that, if I do not have a personal rec from someone I just call until I get an appt.

In NYC, I would call my friends who were Drs for recs when I needed specialists for lumps and bumps. That reminds me, I am months late for my squishing. ugh.

ION - tick tick tick tick BOOM!