There are no absolutes. No right and wrong. Haven't you learned anything working for the Powers? There are only choices.

Jasmine ,'Power Play'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Scrappy - Sep 25, 2013 7:40:28 pm PDT #6672 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I don't care about ethnicity, but I'm an education snob. I look at the schools they went to.


-t - Sep 25, 2013 7:43:21 pm PDT #6673 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have picked doctor's based on the coolness of their name. My current primary care doc is named Minerva and I did choose her because I like her name. Because what else did I have to go on? But not because it's a more competent name than the other options, because I just arbitrarily like it.

I can't imagine a name that would make me not see that doctor, though. Slash, maybe? Probably for some people Igor would be troubling, but that's my dad's name, so, different associations for me. Would Dr. Nevaeh Whatever or Dr. Apple Something worry me? Well, I wouldn't choose them over Minerva, but I'd certainly see them if that's how things shook out.


aurelia - Sep 25, 2013 7:53:15 pm PDT #6674 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Shrift! I would love to see Othello and Macbeth at the Music Box!

I need to find a doc (and dentist) but I never would have thought about picking based on name. Unless someone has a seriously cool name.


Calli - Sep 26, 2013 1:17:18 am PDT #6675 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I just go on recomendations from friends, and I'm kind of bummed, because my current doctor is no longer a preferred provider for my insurance company. I may just pay the extra and be extra vigilant on where the tests get sent, because she's the only doctor I've had where the pap smears didn't hurt (much).


Matt the Bruins fan - Sep 26, 2013 2:11:17 am PDT #6676 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I don't know that I've ever chosen a specific GP myself. My folks picked my pediatrician, in college I started going to the practice they'd switched to after their crooked GP went up the river for child molestation, and when my initial doctor in that practice decided to quit in favor of race car driving my parents' excellent GP took over his patients. Other than Pedo!Doc I've been more than happy with every doctor I've lucked into.


flea - Sep 26, 2013 2:54:23 am PDT #6677 of 30000
information libertarian

I am totally a name snob, and I think for a lot of people those things operate nearly subconsciously. Would you explicitly choose to see Dr. Sarah Dawson over Dr. Tiffiny Dawson? Maybe not, but you might see Sarah are more serious. (I, personally, would be judgy about Tiffiny's parents' choices.) Also a lot of first name choices have racial coding in the US; Dr. Sarah Dawson reads white and Dr. Shaniqua Dawson reads black, and no we are not post-racial yet.

Also, if your last name is Pepper, maybe consider law school instead of med school.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 2:58:26 am PDT #6678 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

If the doctor's name were Apple Martin, I would totally pick that person. (I mean, if it were 15 years from now, and it could be that Apple Martin.)


brenda m - Sep 26, 2013 3:12:37 am PDT #6679 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I got a rec from my dermatologist (who was a rec from a friend). That person wasn't taking new patients so the receptionist wanted to send me to their website to choose someone else. Which, what am I supposed to glean from that? It took a while to get through to her that I was not doing that and to please just make me a damn appointment with whoever IS taking new patients.

As it turns out, that person is great and I really like him.


billytea - Sep 26, 2013 3:13:35 am PDT #6680 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

If the doctor's name were Apple Martin, I would totally pick that person. (I mean, if it were 15 years from now, and it could be that Apple Martin.)

How about if they were called Apple Martini?


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 3:21:06 am PDT #6681 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Apple Martini, probably no.