Wesley: And how does your kind define love? Demon: Same as all bodies. Same as everywheres. Love is sacrifice.

'The Girl in Question'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jul 27, 2013 10:55:41 am PDT #487 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I actually don't care that it's there, only that I have to deal with the people who seem to think it's a big horrible obstacle.

I might be a bridethulhu here, but since I'm in the process of planning a wedding, yeah, I would be annoyed if our venue had a big pile of mulch or some other unsightly obstacle that was never part of the agreed-upon contract.

I'm sure a pile of mulch is beautiful to you, but when someone rents your venue, they rent it with the understanding that, unless specifically delineated in the contract, the appearance of the venue will be as they saw it. Actually -- do people pay to use the arboretum for events? If it's free, then they kind of get what they get. But if they paid, I think they're entitled to expect it to appear a certain way.

Will their special magical beautiful pretty princess day be traumatically ruined with a pile of mulch? No, of course not. But that doesn't mean they don't have the right to be annoyed that the venue they contracted with -- and paid for -- isn't as they expected.

t makes note to talk to B&B about landscaping projects


Cass - Jul 27, 2013 10:58:02 am PDT #488 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Stopping at Falling Waters on the way back tomorrow because architecture.

Because architecture is a fabulous reason.

Yesterday and today I deeep deeeeep cleaned. Which is really gross in this much humidity. But, dang, I should do this more often.

I need a shock collar to train my brother that sending out basically distress calls the second he can't find someone in the family he wants to talk with. At least clearly state that you just can't get a hold of them instead of "have you talked to X today?" Because I can catastrophize too, buddy. I was napping when the text came in. Clearly not now.


Juliebird - Jul 27, 2013 11:07:34 am PDT #489 of 30000
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

Steph, I agree. What annoys me is that the location of the mulch deposit wasn't my decision, and that there was nothing I could do about remedying it without a week or two lead-time, but I still was the person on the grounds having to deal with the frustration of the renters, trying to be diplomatic about a mess that I didn't make and couldn't possibly solve to anyone's satisfaction. And will probably have to deal with the ED's annoyance once he gets wind of the the wedding parties annoyance.

The rest is me just trying to make myself feel better about my own helplessness.


Cashmere - Jul 27, 2013 1:05:05 pm PDT #490 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

"Adirondack chair" is my brain's default answer to "going to stretch out and read outside not by a pool".

I want a zero gravity lounge chair something fierce.


brenda m - Jul 27, 2013 1:15:28 pm PDT #491 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Costco. I got one end of season last year for like 25 bucks.


Lee - Jul 27, 2013 1:17:58 pm PDT #492 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I just took down the baby gate, and posted it on Freecycle!

I feel like I got my house back, but with extra dog.


Jesse - Jul 27, 2013 2:51:21 pm PDT #493 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Jesse, I don't think you're taking the right lesson from lunch: NO BEETS.

That's just wrong. Really I want all beets for lunch.


Amy - Jul 27, 2013 2:55:22 pm PDT #494 of 30000
Because books.

I've never had anything but canned beets as a child, and even now the memory makes me nauseous. I guess fresh ones are better?

I just took down the baby gate, and posted it on Freecycle!

So Dita's good with Charlie now? Or goodish?


-t - Jul 27, 2013 3:01:56 pm PDT #495 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't find a great deal of difference between canned beets and fresh. I like 'em both. Pickled is different, of course. But still tasty, for me.


Scrappy - Jul 27, 2013 3:06:36 pm PDT #496 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Beets = yum.