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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - May 25, 2014 4:10:18 pm PDT #28450 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh! This afternoon, my mother and went to see my father and check out the protestant church service they have. So he was asleep and couldn't wake up, so my mother and I went to the service anyway. It was some people from a real Bible Baptist church, and the guy preached for 20 minutes! To a room full of mostly unaware or uninterested people! Yikes. AND said several things I vehemently disagree with. But the songs were real old-timey ones my father would probably like, so maybe another time? We'll see.


Burrell - May 25, 2014 6:25:58 pm PDT #28451 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh Jesse, that's got to be hard, many hugs to you and your mother.


meara - May 25, 2014 8:03:19 pm PDT #28452 of 30000

Oof, Jesse. That seems excessive for the people--was it almost all people from the facility or were there other family member types like you guys?

I am exhausted--so much dancing this weekend! But good. And now wishing October was sooner, when I will see these folks again. But then I also got to hang out with my cousins (and a bit more tomorrow)!


msbelle - May 25, 2014 8:16:06 pm PDT #28453 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I tried on all the clothes in my closet. Two large laundry baskets to get rid of. Brutal. Losing lots of stuff I really liked, several vintage dresses, cute summer skirts, all of my pants. Tomorrow I'll divide what goes straight to thrift and what gets an attempt at eBay. If anyone size 8 or 10 is looking to add to wardrobe and wants to see pics, holler.


sarameg - May 26, 2014 2:19:52 am PDT #28454 of 30000

I don't care how long I've technically been awake, motivating myself to go swim first thing in the morning is HARD. And I've got to get in before the pool tyrants (I call them something meaner) that are the morning senior water aerobics classes get in there. They.don't.share.


Theodosia - May 26, 2014 2:48:05 am PDT #28455 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Last time I looked in the closet for stuff to give to charity I got real depressed, because even though I don't wear most of it, I still like them. Feh.


Jesse - May 26, 2014 3:01:24 am PDT #28456 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That seems excessive for the people--was it almost all people from the facility or were there other family member types like you guys?

All from the facility! It was in a different unit (not specific to dementia), but most of the people there didn't seem any great shakes.


Jesse - May 26, 2014 3:22:07 am PDT #28457 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So, they say it's going to be nice and warm out today, but so far it's still 60 and rainy. I liked last weekend better!


-t - May 26, 2014 3:52:20 am PDT #28458 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Go, msbelle! I would be interested in your cast offs (I am not sure what size I am right now, but I think the last things I got from the consignment store were 12s). I really really need to to go through my own wardrobe and pull out the things that are not wearable.

Mild discomfort rather than pain this morning, yay!


Jesse - May 26, 2014 4:18:04 am PDT #28459 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yay!