Saffron: But we've been wed. Aren't we to become one flesh? Mal: Well, no, uh... We're still two fleshes here, and I think that your flesh ought to sleep somewhere else.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - May 19, 2014 1:07:10 pm PDT #28090 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ecuador with Brenda. We're going to be in the Amazon region for a couple of days.

Ooh, that sounds great!


Connie Neil - May 19, 2014 1:33:31 pm PDT #28091 of 30000
brillig

I knew what the trip was about, but my brain saw "In the Amazon region" and thought "Hm, I wonder if they can go shopping."


Laura - May 19, 2014 2:31:22 pm PDT #28092 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Ecuador with Brenda. We're going to be in the Amazon region for a couple of days

Very cool! Or probably more likely on the warm side. I was there is DH and kids, but in the mountains and volcano areas. They certainly have a variety. Looking forward to hearing your adventure tales and seeing the pictures.

I have no doubt that my mother's feelings about care were influenced by taking care of her mother-in-law. We are all fortunate that she has suffered no dementia. I can only imagine how much that complicates everything.


-t - May 19, 2014 2:46:09 pm PDT #28093 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

JFC today was a Monday and a half. Was locked out of my computer for half an hour first thing in the morning, then had a good hour and a half of working before it was time for an hour long meeting followed by a half hour drive to a four-hour meeting (which did feed me lunch BUT STILL) then a half-hour back so I could try to cram everything that absolutely had to get done today into 20 minutes. Failed at that, of course, stayed an extra 45 minutes. But the kicker is, the one thing I really desperately needed to do today, once I got it done, I got a call from my "internal customer" telling me I am doing it wrong and apparently have been for the 6 months I've had the account (I was actually trained a year ago and have been doing it the same way and there has been no whisper that anything should be different, so I tend to think she is full of shit, but there's no way this isn't a huge PITA). Argh.


Connie Neil - May 19, 2014 3:06:52 pm PDT #28094 of 30000
brillig

I feel like I'm tempting the universe, but yesterday our "son" replaced a sensor on the Jeep, which has been reported in the past to be a cause of the engine stopping at low RPM. Today Hubby drove it around for 2 hours with no problems. All I need to do now is get the far-expired Taurus home without an issue, and I can swap over to my new car.


shrift - May 19, 2014 3:41:33 pm PDT #28095 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Fingers crossed, Connie.

I was there is DH and kids, but in the mountains and volcano areas. They certainly have a variety.

Cool! We'll be going there, too.

Vaccination soreness is beginning to set in.


msbelle - May 19, 2014 3:50:05 pm PDT #28096 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Old people stubbornly living alone and getting depressed is such common thing, how can more people not see it happening in others to recognize it in themselves.

OLD FOLKS COMMUNITY HOUSING is like my favorite thing ever. I really really do not understand why more people do not do it. Pool money even and hire a full-time aide.


Jesse - May 19, 2014 3:54:43 pm PDT #28097 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

OLD FOLKS COMMUNITY HOUSING is like my favorite thing ever. I really really do not understand why more people do not do it.

I've finally realized some of the part of it I don't get is having lived in the same place for 30+ years.


Steph L. - May 19, 2014 4:18:11 pm PDT #28098 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

OLD FOLKS COMMUNITY HOUSING is like my favorite thing ever. I really really do not understand why more people do not do it. Pool money even and hire a full-time aide.

Seriously. My stepdad's mother is a widow (her husband died after not getting his pneumonia treated because he is stubborn [and also dead, so you do the math]), my dad is single but in his 70s, and Tim's dad is a widower. Both Tim's dad and my dad (who, coincidentally, have the same first name) are easygoing guys who could really use someone to tell them what to do. My stepdad's mom is, more or less, the ideal dictator of a small island nation. THEY SHOULD ALL LIVE TOGETHER! Win-win-win.


Amy - May 19, 2014 4:28:51 pm PDT #28099 of 30000
Because books.

Stephen's dad is so much like that. Once Stephen's mom died, he just sort of deflated. He doesn't go to church anymore -- he never goes anywhere but the grocery store or the doctor's office. Even when we were still up there, he used to chafe at sitting down to dinner all together sometimes. It makes me so sad for him, because there's so much he could be enjoying about his remaining years, and he's just not.