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Mal ,'The Message'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Polgara - Apr 27, 2014 7:43:03 pm PDT #26278 of 30000
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS

So, anyone have a link for a semi-reputable online self-test thingie for ADHD? I should probably finally take a look at it.

Jilli, you could start here: [link].

Anyone else take this quiz yet? I'm curious what the average score is. [I got a 35.]


meara - Apr 27, 2014 7:48:36 pm PDT #26279 of 30000

I got a 30, but I wasn't really sure how to answer some of the questions. I kinda figure MOST people could say "sometimes" or "often" about most of those questions. And who DOESN"T have trouble paying attention to a boring task, or buckling down to do something unfun?

...that said, I do think the internet has destroyed my powers of concentration. But not sure how much is that and how much is attempting to not be forgetful. I tend to be doing eight different things at once on my work computer because if I don't start that email as soon as I realize I need to send it, I'll forget, and if I don't also have the travel department tab up I'll forget I needed to book that trip, etc etc. I try to open tabs to what I"ll need to be working on even if it's not right this second, so I don't look at my open browser and go "why did I need this open again?"


beth b - Apr 27, 2014 8:07:10 pm PDT #26280 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I got 36 - and I do not think I am adhd. I think I should have hit rarely more often. And I have trained myself not to sit for too long a time period - Partly because it is bad for my health - and I rarely get more thn 1 to 2 hourds to do any one thing at my job. and one or two things happened before 12 - but most didn't ....


Polgara - Apr 27, 2014 8:23:19 pm PDT #26281 of 30000
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS

Ok, whew. My docs think I might be ADD, but medication had no effect on me, except to jack up my anxiety attacks. I'm oddly comforted to see it's not that hard to score high on that test.


Juliebird - Apr 27, 2014 9:48:21 pm PDT #26282 of 30000
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

Scored 19. I have a sudden flash of a long known problem of mine (my seventh grade science teacher calling me out on my glazed-over eyes) where I space out while people are talking, so I'll chant in my head "pay attention pay attention" and then the only thing that registers from the conversation is me thinking "pay attention".


erin_obscure - Apr 27, 2014 10:53:36 pm PDT #26283 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

I got a 31 on that ADHD test and I am most certainly NOT AD. Maybe a teeny bit hyperactive technically but I think of that more as excess nervous energy and being excellent at multi tasking. I may be fidgety as all get out and have trouble sitting still for any amount of time, but I've never had any trouble at all focusing on detailed tasks. I get shit done, and the only time I 'zone out' is during boring lectures or civil court cases. Like any human being. I kinda feel like anyone with a significant online presence is gonna score rather high on that quiz.

eta: I mean seriously, have ya'll seen what I do for fun? Try teaching pysanky-making to someone with ADHD. So not gonna happen.


Beverly - Apr 28, 2014 12:12:11 am PDT #26284 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

No but see, ADHD--or at least, ADD people, of which I am one (definitely *not* ADHD) often have hyperfocus. Pysanky is perfect for somebody with the ability to concentrate fiercely on a task for hours and screen out all externals.

With me it's can't concentrate at all, or hyperfocus. Pick one. I just try to pick the one that best suits the occasion.

I had such scarring forced gardening experiences as a child, I hadn't ever wanted to try growing things in actual dirt. I had a container garden on my deck, and we have another container garden here. I am thinking of a raised herb bed maybe next year, though.


Strix - Apr 28, 2014 12:26:11 am PDT #26285 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Our front yard -- the summers for the last two years killed it. It is a desolate wasteland of dead crabgrass. It looks awful, and it's kind of embarrassing, but I think watering lawns is terribly wasteful and expensive. The backyard is a hot mess, too, but at least there's some greenery there.

I'm just going to have to be satisfied with doing the tiny little patch in the front yard that's a fallow garden patch, and herbs and flowers in pots, because we can't spend money on re-doing the yard right now. Neighbors just gonna have to hate.


Calli - Apr 28, 2014 1:26:26 am PDT #26286 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I love gardening. I'm not much into lawns, but if you make the gardens big enough that doesn't matter. Depending on how you set them up, once you get them established, gardens can be pretty low maintenance, with just a few weekends of major effort in spring and fall. Yay mulch, soaker hoses, and perennials!


Strix - Apr 28, 2014 1:54:04 am PDT #26287 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

We're having issues with the mortgage; the ex-wife is still on the house, and refinancing is a...waiting game. We won't really know if we'll be able to refinance in D's name only until September.

It's all a big complex mess -- so we don't really know if we'll be able to keep this house, therefore no money goes into the yard/house until we know more in the fall. So...planters and the wee garden plot in front will be what I can work on. Nothing huge.

It's really stressful and quite the PITA.