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on the excommunication

So he was excommunicated for not being crazy enough?

That's fascinating on the excommunication, msbelle. So yeah, sounds like not a lot of hope for there being less hate now that he's gone. He did too good a job of nurturing it while he was alive.

tommy, substitute grandmother for father, and you're me.

I admire the kind of human who feels sorry for Phelps and pities the members of his church, but I am not one. I don't want anything horrible to happen to any of them, but I have no sympathy with any pain they may go through. I hope their church tears itself apart and its legacy dies with its current members.

I hate being around angry people--it makes me really uncomfortable. Even when it's nothing to do with me.

Me, too. Actually, it depends on how the anger's being expressed. But yes, generally. And I had the same experience with my dad, tommyrot.

My dad had a very bad temper but I don;t have those issues. Maybe because he really tried to control it and we all knew when we were setting him off, so it was predictable. The third time he asked you to do something or if you were rude to my mom in his presence, watch out. There was yelling and sometimes spanking or a clout on the head. But I have no problem being around anger. I don't like it, the DH and I work hard not to lose out tempers with each other, but I don't have the visceral reaction a lot of friends do.

But how is Rose old enough to enjoy dress up?? Isn't she like, a year old?

Well, she'll be two next month, but she definitely enjoys things like silly hats and glasses and wearing Daddy's shoes. A lot of the dress-up stuff she won't use for a while, but I think she'll start playing with some of it pretty soon.

Burrell and Kat, thank you so much for offering costume things! I would gladly take them off your hands if you feel like sending them my way, but I do have a good amount of stuff already, so don't feel like you have to.

msbelle, I don't have any idea what song you're referring to, but I'd be curious to know the answer!

My Dad's anger is why I'm in therapy. It's why I have such crippling self-esteem issues.

I'm not really good at dealing with other people being angry. Or, at least, with them yelling or shouting or calling people names or any of that stuff. That just didn't happen in my house when I was a kid -- I can count on one hand the number of times I can remember somebody shouting at someone else (well, other than us kids shouting at each other). I kind of don't know how to cope with that stuff -- people getting visibly obviously angry just freaks me out, because it's such an unfamiliar situation and I don't know how to deal with it.