I'm a vision of hotliness, and how weird is that? Mystical comas. You know, if you can stand the horror of a higher power hijacking your mind and body so that it can give birth to itself, I really recommend 'em.

Cordelia ,'You're Welcome'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


shrift - Feb 09, 2014 1:07:47 pm PST #19640 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I put coffee filters in my shopping basket, but I just now realized that they didn't make it into my bag and I don't see them on my receipt.

Aw, coffee, no.


Theodosia - Feb 09, 2014 1:16:07 pm PST #19641 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I finished another Lynda.com course. Now I'm making bread and later on there will be pizza, I think.


Sue - Feb 09, 2014 1:18:56 pm PST #19642 of 30000
hip deep in pie

Happy Birthday Suzi!

I have barely left my house this weekend. And I just bailed on a Buffy viewing party. I seem to be in hibernation mode.


Vortex - Feb 09, 2014 1:30:57 pm PST #19643 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Now it's possible AOL did pay for her care--some companies take that risk, and just have insurance companies handle stuff but the company itself pays. But if so, that's the risk they take and probably they have reinsurance for it (see here re self insurance. One of my former companies did this, which seemed like a stupid idea to me).

Yep, my company does the "insurance company handle stuff" part (I actually negotiate the agreements with the companies). One of the reasons why companies do this is to control the insurance plan. When we sell a "fully insured" plan, the company has to take what we're offering and generally has no say in the administration or structure of the plan (aside from some standard variables). When it's "self insured", we administer whatever they want, however they want (presuming it's legal, of course). The company gets to control the benefits offered, any limits to those benefits, how the benefits are paid, how often they are paid, etc. Also, benefit plans are often controlled by a federal law called ERISA, and if the company has its own benefit plan, they can structure it so that ERISA doesn't apply and they don't have to follow those rules.


-t - Feb 09, 2014 1:39:19 pm PST #19644 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, no, shrift!

Final load of laundry is in the washer, penultimate in the dryer, all prior loads have been folded and put away (or hung up, whatever).

The kitchen, however, may well defeat me. This cutting board thing is getting me down, and I have yet to get enough washing up done to make cooking easy. Blergh.


Liese S. - Feb 09, 2014 1:42:47 pm PST #19645 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I put away my laundry! It took me twenty minutes. I feel shame that I let it sit there for two days.

I also went to home depot and bought ALL THE CABLE TIES and will have a go at organizing them now. I will still need to test and repair them later, but that job is not getting done right now. I did also buy all the stuff I needed to make the studio work, I think, except for the DI boxes I need at the music store.


Kat - Feb 09, 2014 1:46:42 pm PST #19646 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

So, Vortex, why would a company with roughly 5000 employees choose to self-insure? I guess it seems like a lot of risk with that number of employees.

But fascinating.

Also, on the insurance front, my union has asked for a 16% raise, along with back compensation of some sort of the furloughed days. I would rather we keep our amazing insurance (where my entire family is insured with no premiums) than get a raise. That shows you my fucked up priorities.


SuziQ - Feb 09, 2014 1:47:47 pm PST #19647 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Thanks for the birthday wishes. I think I'm as caught up on work e-mail as I care to be today. I did send out a note to my PMs that while I'm back full time, it may not be my regular hours. If I get tired or too distracted, I'm takng a break and will make up the time later in the day.


SuziQ - Feb 09, 2014 1:58:35 pm PST #19648 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Three giggling girls, all in ARP, just knocked on the door and asked if CJ would show them where the playground is here (one of them just moved to our complex). Note, it is 23 degrees out - perfect weather to hang outside.


Lee - Feb 09, 2014 2:23:56 pm PST #19649 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Happy Birthday Suzi!

-t reminded me I need to do the bird feeders. Maybe that will make me feel like I didn't totally waste today. I doubt it, but it might.