See how I'm not punching him? I think I've grown.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Liese S. - Nov 30, 2013 2:29:11 pm PST #13421 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Auburn, WHAT?!


Connie Neil - Nov 30, 2013 2:37:18 pm PST #13422 of 30000
brillig

We went to both malls today. Hubby got a new tie and a lightchanging LED bulb to put in the hall. Little things make him happy. He kept pointing out figurines and electronic toys that he thought I would like, but I kept saying, "I have no place to put it" or boring things about bills. He kept looking sadder and sadder as he failed to find prizes to lay at my feet to show his devotion. Halloweed is easier, he finds me nifty stuff with skulls to present to me.


Zenkitty - Nov 30, 2013 2:40:39 pm PST #13423 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Recovery ~ma for Steph and Bev's H. and tommy's dad! No more holiday injuries or illnesses, everyone, please.

Eek. Yes, good thing the stuff didn't get given away with diamond earrings inside or something!

My stepfather once found a diamond ring that way, for real.

The fam + guest went to the Big Game! I dropped them off and came home for a nap. I caught the end of the game on tv, so I'm happy that sister's BF's team won. But the local team lost badly, so their drive back to this end of town may be fraught with frustrated fools.

I love my family, but I am ready to be alone now. Honestly, I may never be able to live with someone else ever again. I'm moody and impatient and introverted and not real energetic, and I've lived by myself too long to easily accommodate someone else in my space.


Calli - Nov 30, 2013 2:50:01 pm PST #13424 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Zenkitty, I feel the same way. My few remaining true love fantasies involve a wonderful man living in a house next door.


Jesse - Nov 30, 2013 2:56:41 pm PST #13425 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh, my grandmother's earrings are a funny story: She found one of them, and bought another to match AND got her ears pierced! They are little, at any rate.


-t - Nov 30, 2013 3:00:18 pm PST #13426 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Honestly, I may never be able to live with someone else ever again. I'm moody and impatient and introverted and not real energetic, and I've lived by myself too long to easily accommodate someone else in my space.

Right there with you. Behind my well-defined boundaries that I control access through, I mean.


Amy - Nov 30, 2013 3:04:34 pm PST #13427 of 30000
Because books.

My few remaining true love fantasies involve a wonderful man living in a house next door.

I'm married and I still fantasize about this. In my fantasy, he and the kids have a house and I have an apartment over the garage.


flea - Nov 30, 2013 3:10:39 pm PST #13428 of 30000
information libertarian

When my kids were little, I totally fantasized about having my own tiny little apartment, where everything was white and there were no toys. AND IT WAS QUIET.


Burrell - Nov 30, 2013 3:12:52 pm PST #13429 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

My fantasies involve a weekend vacation away from kids, no cooking, and nothing work related. As reasonable as that sounds, it has never happened and isn't likely to happen any time in the foreseeable future. oh well. depressed now.


-t - Nov 30, 2013 3:18:46 pm PST #13430 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Amy, one of the houses on the Home Tour I went on in October had been extensively remodeled with the husband actually doing most of the work rather than hiring contractors or whatever. One of the things he did was turn a tiny garage into a tiny studio for his wife with a murphy bed, frilly decor (because that's what she wanted and it didn't go with the rest of the house) and a bathroom - so she would have a retreat all her own. All of us on the tour were jealous.