I know, world in peril and we have to work together. This is my last office romance, I'll tell you that.

Buffy ,'End of Days'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Nov 14, 2013 3:55:21 pm PST #12009 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That does sound hectic, Jesse, but then you'll start the new year in your new place and with a new job, which sounds pretty good.


Jesse - Nov 14, 2013 3:56:51 pm PST #12010 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

At least each of these crowns of mine only impacts its tooth!

True fact.

You know how some people wish they didn't have to eat? I wish I didn't have to have teeth. And mine aren't that bad!


Juliebird - Nov 14, 2013 3:59:15 pm PST #12011 of 30000
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

I had a talk with boss lady where I apologized for being a bossy desk jockey. She deflected and said everything is okay. That I shouldn't beat myself up over percieved slights. I said I felt that due to circumstances that I wasn't fully a part of the department, and she said that was nonsense.

So everything is fine, apparently.

I'm relieved that she isn't officially pissed at my behaviour. But it still feels like a whole pacl of lies.

I'm still rolling my eyes whenever she mentions something England or Longwood related. And I know it's rude. I've started recounting tales from when I was in the Army just to counteract the annoyance, and to provide a bit of "fuck you" to the conversation. Oh, you had to plant a thousand bulbs? I had to do pushups in a hill of fire-ants.

There's still a couple of issues that I haven't addressed, but I [chickened out] decided on baby steps.

Like, how do I say that I'm pretty freaking offended by recieving marching orders from the intern, beyond being blunt about it. I even witnessed her being bossy to the facilities manager, and that was so not on in my eyes, but schooling her when the DoH is there doesn't seem right.


Sue - Nov 14, 2013 4:06:44 pm PST #12012 of 30000
hip deep in pie

I was actually kind of hoping the position wasn't in the budget until January -- that would have been a lot easier for me! I move in two weeks, start the new job two weeks after that. Two weeks after that is Christmas, when I'll have a week off.

Can you negotiate a later start date?


Jesse - Nov 14, 2013 4:10:12 pm PST #12013 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I possibly could have, but she was like, "AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!" And I didn't say I needed to think about it, just said yes. Although I see the letter doesn't have a start date, so maybe I'll see about starting later. But on the other hand, I'd rather have the time around my move, which is before that. In short, I think I can wait until Christmas for the time off!


§ ita § - Nov 14, 2013 4:38:08 pm PST #12014 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm watching the Global Frequency pilot (good times!) and there's this really urgent line: "There's a camera in the PHONE." that makes me realise--it wasn't all that long ago, but that was forever.

Welcome to the Global Frequency.


Steph L. - Nov 14, 2013 4:39:28 pm PST #12015 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Okay, I'm arguing on FB with someone whether "pre-diabetes" is a disease state. (Hint: IT'S NOT. It's a set of numbers and diagnostic criteria that lead to, frankly, a guess that someone has a 50-50 chance of developing diabetes. That's not a disease state.)

Dude is all paleo and crossfit and 2% bodyfat, so my very fat self has no credibility with him. EVEN THOUGH I'M A MEDICAL EDITOR.

I'm also hopped up on migraine meds so it's possible I'm just itching for a fight.


Amy - Nov 14, 2013 4:56:44 pm PST #12016 of 30000
Because books.

You're right, Steph. Which you knew, I know, but still worth saying.

Jesse, you're going to need the time off by then! But hopefully you can also enjoy it.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 14, 2013 4:57:19 pm PST #12017 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

could there be some parallel drawn with a non-state of "pre-pregnancy"?


Connie Neil - Nov 14, 2013 4:58:44 pm PST #12018 of 30000
brillig

Then the ever popular pre-cold! Reason to buy more drugs! Because god forbid you may have just sneezed at a random irritant.