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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Nov 02, 2013 3:28:33 am PDT #10892 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I'm off to the Catskills for another bout of cat-sitting, so depending on connectivity I may or may not be around online.

I'm realizing by the time I get back (less than a week) all my trees will have lost their leaves!


Sheryl - Nov 02, 2013 4:29:25 am PDT #10893 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I've been lucky. Haven't had an overnight stay in a hospital since I was 5 and had my tonsils and adenoids out. (I've had a couple of outpatient procedures, but that's it.)


Jesse - Nov 02, 2013 5:00:33 am PDT #10894 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I've never been a patient admitted to the hospital (since I was a newborn), but I have spent way too much time as a visitor over the past few months.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:00:39 am PDT #10895 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

are hospital hallways ever actually dark??

Yes. In the NICU rooms they are dark all the time to simulate a womb, unless a baby is getting light therapy for jaundice. The outer hallway, by the sink etc, is dimmed too, but still pretty bright.

I need to defend hospital staff

Me too.

Every night I've had to stay with Grace (YES! She is is MRSA colonized which means contact isolation and no room sharing! Way to go extremely infectious, difficult to treat disease!) after a surgery has been difficult and people are in and out for patient care, but they try to remain quiet so Grace can sleep or so that I can sleep. Keep in mind, we are now on in the middle of year 4 of surgeries that happen every 10 weeks.

I will also silence alarms myself. When she's in a monitored bed, I just turn them off myself. If it shows up at the nurse's station and someone checks, that's fine. I will also turn off her IV infusions if they beep for more than a half hour or I will call the nurse and request that they either refill the bag or cap the IV.

The hardest overnights, weirdly, are the sleep studies.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:00:41 am PDT #10896 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

are hospital hallways ever actually dark??

Yes. In the NICU rooms they are dark all the time to simulate a womb, unless a baby is getting light therapy for jaundice. The outer hallway, by the sink etc, is dimmed too, but still pretty bright.

I need to defend hospital staff

Me too.

Every night I've had to stay with Grace (YES! She is is MRSA colonized which means contact isolation and no room sharing! Way to go extremely infectious, difficult to treat disease!) after a surgery has been difficult and people are in and out for patient care, but they try to remain quiet so Grace can sleep or so that I can sleep. Keep in mind, we are now on in the middle of year 4 of surgeries that happen every 10 weeks.

I will also silence alarms myself. When she's in a monitored bed, I just turn them off myself. If it shows up at the nurse's station and someone checks, that's fine. I will also turn off her IV infusions if they beep for more than a half hour or I will call the nurse and request that they either refill the bag or cap the IV.

The hardest overnights, weirdly, are the sleep studies.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:01:01 am PDT #10897 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Ugh. So true, Jesse.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:01:02 am PDT #10898 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Ugh. So true, Jesse.


Amy - Nov 02, 2013 5:10:22 am PDT #10899 of 30000
Because books.

My mom's been chronically ill since I was a kid, so I've spent way too much time in hospitals, too (aside from my own in-patient stays). Hospitals are noisy, and are hardly the best place to get a peaceful night's sleep, but my point was that the staff isn't being noisy or careless purposely. Most of the disruption comes from other patients, and machinery, and the simple fact of so many people trying to work while others are sleeping.

For me, with all three kids, and the gall bladder surgery, nurses were the saving grace of each stay, and they've done more for my mom than I can say.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2013 5:12:09 am PDT #10900 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I was really impressed with our local ICU, when my grandmother was there. The rooms were totally self-contained, so it was very quiet in there with the door shut, and they had a sign on the door to let staff know she wasn't having any intervention. It was a butterfly -- I assume that's what it meant. My other favorite one they have is like a shooting star, for falling risk.


-t - Nov 02, 2013 6:08:37 am PDT #10901 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

§ ita § (and any other interested parties), is this what you had in mind, shared Evernote-wise?

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I've never had more trouble sleeping in hospitals than I did in motels or any bed-that-is-not-my-bed, really.

I was up before dawn this morning for no reason whatsoever. I am just that person, now, I guess.