I like the ruffles.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:01:01 am PDT #10897 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Ugh. So true, Jesse.


Kat - Nov 02, 2013 5:01:02 am PDT #10898 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Ugh. So true, Jesse.


Amy - Nov 02, 2013 5:10:22 am PDT #10899 of 30000
Because books.

My mom's been chronically ill since I was a kid, so I've spent way too much time in hospitals, too (aside from my own in-patient stays). Hospitals are noisy, and are hardly the best place to get a peaceful night's sleep, but my point was that the staff isn't being noisy or careless purposely. Most of the disruption comes from other patients, and machinery, and the simple fact of so many people trying to work while others are sleeping.

For me, with all three kids, and the gall bladder surgery, nurses were the saving grace of each stay, and they've done more for my mom than I can say.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2013 5:12:09 am PDT #10900 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I was really impressed with our local ICU, when my grandmother was there. The rooms were totally self-contained, so it was very quiet in there with the door shut, and they had a sign on the door to let staff know she wasn't having any intervention. It was a butterfly -- I assume that's what it meant. My other favorite one they have is like a shooting star, for falling risk.


-t - Nov 02, 2013 6:08:37 am PDT #10901 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

§ ita § (and any other interested parties), is this what you had in mind, shared Evernote-wise?

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I've never had more trouble sleeping in hospitals than I did in motels or any bed-that-is-not-my-bed, really.

I was up before dawn this morning for no reason whatsoever. I am just that person, now, I guess.


flea - Nov 02, 2013 6:50:04 am PDT #10902 of 30000
information libertarian

I've only been in a hospital to give birth in the last 40 years, and I was very frustrated with my time after the babies were born for a couple of reasons. 1) NO WIFI. 2) A lot of the hospital routines are set up for the convenience of the staff, not the patient. Someone would come in and check X, then half an hour later someone else would come in and check on Y, then half an hour later there would be food. (Terrible food). And I was tired, had just been up all night not to mention giving birth and all, but was basically in excellent health (unmedicated birth, straightforward delivery.) I knew logically that they needed to check on me for possible complications, but the lack of coordination of everything was annoying. Like, I was rooming in, but they came and took Dillo away to check something on him, late at night when I was alone, and they didn't bring him back for hours, and not for any medical reason they ever mentioned to me; I sort of think they thought they were being helpful by taking the baby so I could sleep, but I wanted the baby with me and couldn't sleep while he was gone for worrying about him. He was also in fine health, so why couldn't they coordinate checks on the baby with checks on the mother, and do them in-room? Because it was easier for them. Which makes sense in its way, but was very annoying for the 24 hours I had to deal with it. I might feel differently if I'd been hospitalized for actual illness.


§ ita § - Nov 02, 2013 6:55:51 am PDT #10903 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Negative t, that's exactly what I was thinking of! I've joined the notebook, and I'll copy my recipes over in a second (not as many as yours, but I will be more diligent about filing instead of bookmarking, etc).


Jesse - Nov 02, 2013 6:59:28 am PDT #10904 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

1) NO WIFI.

Heh. I have the hospital wifi set up in my phone, which is very confusing for it when w drive by every day on my way to work!


brenda m - Nov 02, 2013 7:11:32 am PDT #10905 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'm in the hospital right now! Well, urgent care. And not SFG, in case you were wondering.

I got a pretty bad dog bite yesterday morning, but I had a client meeting to get to then an RFP due so stretching the term urgent a little.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2013 7:13:28 am PDT #10906 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yikes, brenda! Whose dog?