It's simple. I slap 'em around a bit, torture 'em, make their lives hell...Sure, the nice guys'll run away,but every now and then you'll find a prince like Spike who gets off on it.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Beverly - May 13, 2013 12:32:31 pm PDT #97 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Vent away, sj. Profile addy is good.


JZ - May 13, 2013 4:47:00 pm PDT #98 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Ditto, sj. I'm an excellent sympathetic-noise-maker and long-distance-stinkeye-giver, and I also had something small but nice and distracting I wanted to email you about anyway and if you email me first that'll make me stop procrastinating.


sj - May 13, 2013 4:49:49 pm PDT #99 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Beverly and JZ. We're home now, and I'll e-mail you tomorrow. Tonight, I'm not dealing.


smonster - May 13, 2013 4:50:38 pm PDT #100 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I'm always up for a good vent. Hit me wit it.

I'm calmer now. I submit that there is no better mindfulness training than a Monday. Boy howdy, it was all I could do not to turn around and walk out as soon as I walked in. In solving a crisis (really bad water leaks) my boss put me back about a day on finishing this job. This is two days after, joking around at his party, he says I'll get a raise when we make more money. Okay, I get it, and I actually turned down a raise to advocate for my coworker to be paid equal to me or at least closer, but... FUCK YOU. Often as not it's his lack of planning and communication that slows us down.

If I ever get married, I want at least one pic like she has with the mask and the gloves and the utility belt.


beth b - May 13, 2013 6:18:57 pm PDT #101 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sj - feel free to add me to your list, however; once you've sent out a few emails, see if it is helping or hurting.

meanwhile -- sorry, you are not a gold digger. You found someone out there that tried and did connect with you from the beginning. That is a really special thing, don't let anyone taint the well.

and now I want a superhero wedding - but no I wouldn't want to paln it . but you should get the ice scupture , Teppy


beth b - May 13, 2013 6:19:48 pm PDT #102 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

and good on you for now walking out, smonster.

today was mondya, but better than last monday


omnis_audis - May 13, 2013 9:59:50 pm PDT #103 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

In celebration of clearing the boxes from the living room, and marveling at all the space, I have ordered a Total Gym Platinum gizmo to help me stretch and do excercises.

(now, I just have to use it)


Scrappy - May 13, 2013 10:11:09 pm PDT #104 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Today was a good Monday for me, because I was at work at MY NEW JOB. Really like the people I am working with and the vibe of the company. Oh-near the end of the day a midlevel manager suddenly resigned, after sending a really unprofessional letter, lots of dramz. So I got to handle that and got a fervent thank you from the COO.


omnis_audis - May 13, 2013 10:20:04 pm PDT #105 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Wow. Sounds great. Always love the new-job smell. Hope it doesn't wear off for you.

Today was my 3rd year anniversary! Got a note from the Ass't Dean and everything.


Scrappy - May 13, 2013 10:26:29 pm PDT #106 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

It's a much more diverse workforce than my old job, which I really dig.