Two steaming cups of chocolate goodness. Courtesy of whomever I swiped it from out of the cupboard.

Ben ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Feb 10, 2014 5:03:47 pm PST #9046 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Calmness and soothing ~ma!

I baked my morning oatmeal with coconut oil and chocolate chips this morning and think I'm gonna have to make it again for dinner/dessert. Con: 20 minute wait plus cooking time Pro: warm gooey chocolates oatmealey goodness. I even forgot to add honey before cooking and it was still amazing with a little honey drizzled on top afterwards.


Steph L. - Feb 10, 2014 5:07:14 pm PST #9047 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I baked my morning oatmeal with coconut oil and chocolate chips this morning

Coconut oil in oatmeal is AMAZEBALLS. I thank whatever random impulse made me try it the other morning. And it fills me up for a lot longer than non-coconut-oil oatmeal does. Because, okay, oatmeal is BIG-TIME fiber, right? Should be filling. And it is, but then I'm hungry -- starving, really -- within 90 minutes or less. Even when I put protein powder in it, I'm still hungry again really quickly.

But as soon as I put coconut oil in it, I was full for hours. Magic! Tasty magic!


erin_obscure - Feb 10, 2014 5:07:57 pm PST #9048 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Tasty magic is my favorite kind!


Steph L. - Feb 10, 2014 5:16:27 pm PST #9049 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Maybe I'll do cocoa powder tomorrow. Yum!


Dana - Feb 10, 2014 5:16:52 pm PST #9050 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

calm-ma, sj. If it helps, my mother was under anesthesia for almost 6 hours and did just fine.


Laura - Feb 10, 2014 5:22:39 pm PST #9051 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I was under for the foot surgery and I was very concerned before. But after I was amazed that I had no clue and felt completely normal. Like a miracle of science and stuff.

Much love and calm~ma headed your way.


sj - Feb 10, 2014 5:28:08 pm PST #9052 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I've been under anesthesia before. So logically I know it isn't a big deal, but I'm not really using the logical part of my brain right now.

Teppy, yeah I've been doing comfort TV all day. And now I'm going to attempt sleep.


erin_obscure - Feb 10, 2014 5:34:58 pm PST #9053 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Overheard at work today (on the 911 line, no less): "so a big dog is mounting a little dog and you think police need to come protect the little dog? Um.....where are the dogs owners? Have you talked to them? They're laughing and not pulling the dogs apart? Um......" Just an overly concerned passerby.

Also, a business wanting the fire department to come shovel their parking lot. "They're all so big and strong and they hardly ever have actual fires to fight....it would give them something to do." Methinks the fire fighters might disagree, but she did kinda have a point. Still not a chance.


Cass - Feb 10, 2014 5:40:35 pm PST #9054 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Was there anything said in the meeting which you can learn/change from? Since you can't change your bosses and their lack of leadership, was there anything you can use to help improve your own work? That's usually the only benefit to be gained from a situation like this, sadly.

You really can't change bosses or lack of leadership. But you can figure out what matters to the people you can't change. Scrappy is, as usual, wise.

Everything is ad hoc, chaotic, confused. Boss wasn't thinking things through enough to procure key this weekend.

Awww, we work at the same place. I am sorry.

Calmness and soothing ~ma, sj.


Steph L. - Feb 10, 2014 5:43:49 pm PST #9055 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Here, have a soothing capybara: [link]