Sorry, Captain. I'm real sorry. I shoulda kept better care of her. Usually she lets me know when something's wrong. Maybe she did, I just wasn't paying attention...

Kaylee ,'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Feb 04, 2014 10:27:51 am PST #8922 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Maybe today it is. But today isn't forever, it's just today.


Steph L. - Feb 04, 2014 10:33:03 am PST #8923 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

No, I forgot that it's all fine as long as I'm not a problem. Whatever. I should have remembered.


P.M. Marc - Feb 04, 2014 10:34:57 am PST #8924 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Breathing technique thinger: [link]


Ginger - Feb 04, 2014 10:52:58 am PST #8925 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Oh, Teppy, that way lies madness. He didn't marry a perfect person; you didn't marry a perfect person either. You deal with his ADHD, which is not a picnic.


erikaj - Feb 04, 2014 10:54:56 am PST #8926 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

He's probably in the middle of stuff, too. But if I find out he ignored you, I'll put a footplate up his butt. Which will not make him feel like a pretty princess. "I'm babysteppin'...I'm doing the work..."--What about Bob.

We just got new dental insurance...for once, we actually "know a guy" Does not solve most immediate dental prob, but we should be in better shape for next time, so, better than nothing, right?


meara - Feb 04, 2014 11:55:41 am PST #8927 of 30002

What, he lied when he said in sickness and in health? I doubt that very much.

I am back at the place that did the whole "you are awful for doing X" and I was so freaked out and then my boss was like "ok, you did X, and...? Oh, they didn't like it. Yeah, ok, don't do it". Unfortunately they keep fucking up and making my job impossible. It's driving me nuts. They can't get anything done while I'm here, but if they do it on their own they fuck it up. Again and again and again. Aaaagh.


smonster - Feb 04, 2014 2:10:46 pm PST #8928 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Uggh, Steph. I'm so sorry you are having such a shitty day. I hope you've gotten through the panic attack by now. We love you. Tim loves you. I hope you can find a way to talk to him when you are calmer about what would be helpful next time.

meara, that is super annoying. I hope you are documenting all this?

erika, glad you got some better insurance.

My boss, who was supposed to call me by 10 am to schedule our meeting this evening, just called to push it back to tomorrow afternoon. JFC, I am ready to be done with this. At this point I'm thinking of it as an exit interview.


beth b - Feb 04, 2014 3:14:30 pm PST #8929 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Hope you are doing better. And I promise that those of us that are bad a responding to needs - can learn .


sj - Feb 04, 2014 4:50:06 pm PST #8930 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, I'm sorry that you had such a horrible day. I hope that you're feeling better this evening. Would it make you feel better to smite someone? Because I have a cousin who keeps using "passed" in her facebook statuses when she means "past".


Hil R. - Feb 04, 2014 4:59:25 pm PST #8931 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Steph, I hope you're feeling better tonight.