But? There's always a but. When this is over, can we have a big 'but' moratorium?

Fred ,'Smile Time'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Ginger - Feb 04, 2014 10:52:58 am PST #8925 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Oh, Teppy, that way lies madness. He didn't marry a perfect person; you didn't marry a perfect person either. You deal with his ADHD, which is not a picnic.


erikaj - Feb 04, 2014 10:54:56 am PST #8926 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

He's probably in the middle of stuff, too. But if I find out he ignored you, I'll put a footplate up his butt. Which will not make him feel like a pretty princess. "I'm babysteppin'...I'm doing the work..."--What about Bob.

We just got new dental insurance...for once, we actually "know a guy" Does not solve most immediate dental prob, but we should be in better shape for next time, so, better than nothing, right?


meara - Feb 04, 2014 11:55:41 am PST #8927 of 30002

What, he lied when he said in sickness and in health? I doubt that very much.

I am back at the place that did the whole "you are awful for doing X" and I was so freaked out and then my boss was like "ok, you did X, and...? Oh, they didn't like it. Yeah, ok, don't do it". Unfortunately they keep fucking up and making my job impossible. It's driving me nuts. They can't get anything done while I'm here, but if they do it on their own they fuck it up. Again and again and again. Aaaagh.


smonster - Feb 04, 2014 2:10:46 pm PST #8928 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Uggh, Steph. I'm so sorry you are having such a shitty day. I hope you've gotten through the panic attack by now. We love you. Tim loves you. I hope you can find a way to talk to him when you are calmer about what would be helpful next time.

meara, that is super annoying. I hope you are documenting all this?

erika, glad you got some better insurance.

My boss, who was supposed to call me by 10 am to schedule our meeting this evening, just called to push it back to tomorrow afternoon. JFC, I am ready to be done with this. At this point I'm thinking of it as an exit interview.


beth b - Feb 04, 2014 3:14:30 pm PST #8929 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Hope you are doing better. And I promise that those of us that are bad a responding to needs - can learn .


sj - Feb 04, 2014 4:50:06 pm PST #8930 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, I'm sorry that you had such a horrible day. I hope that you're feeling better this evening. Would it make you feel better to smite someone? Because I have a cousin who keeps using "passed" in her facebook statuses when she means "past".


Hil R. - Feb 04, 2014 4:59:25 pm PST #8931 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Steph, I hope you're feeling better tonight.


Vortex - Feb 04, 2014 5:10:27 pm PST #8932 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Hello my love - I am waving at you from across the room because the last thing you need is a hug ;)

I'm sorry that Tim didn't respond the way that you wanted him to. But if you're worried about screwing up, know that he did too.


meara - Feb 04, 2014 5:30:52 pm PST #8933 of 30002

Teppy, I'm sorry that you had such a horrible day. I hope that you're feeling better this evening. Would it make you feel better to smite someone? Because I have a cousin who keeps using "passed" in her facebook statuses when she means "past".

Hee. I love this offer. Only here.

Good luck, smonster. Luckily, yes, I have been documenting again and again their lack of work, but it still looks bad for me to not be able to get them to get it done. Grr.


Connie Neil - Feb 04, 2014 6:10:57 pm PST #8934 of 30002
brillig

Well, Hubby's hair is starting to go. He has a weird shape to the top of his skull, two shallow valleys back from his temples. He says that's where his horns were.