Book: Afraid I might be needing a preacher. Mal: That's good. You lie there and be ironical.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Jan 31, 2014 11:01:10 am PST #8762 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

omg meara is so smart. ARE YOU TURNING INTO SCRAPPY!!!???!?

Heh.


Amy - Jan 31, 2014 11:05:03 am PST #8763 of 30002
Because books.

I'm objectively sucking right now

I think this might depend on who's objectivity we're talking about.

I also get that fear of "if we talk about it, then everyone will agree and it will be Official That I Suck," but it really rarely happens that way.

Either way, I'm sorry you're going through it.

I think I'm going to keep my "who's" mistake up there, just for you, Tep.


Atropa - Jan 31, 2014 11:12:27 am PST #8764 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I also get that fear of "if we talk about it, then everyone will agree and it will be Official That I Suck," but it really rarely happens that way.

It is a totally understandable fear, which is why the evil Depression Monsters like to beat people with it. I'm sorry you're going through it, and THE DEPRESSION MONSTERS ARE LYING LYING FUCKHEADS.

Hugs, sympathy, and ~ma to anyone who needs or wants.

Me, I'm telling myself I can get through today, and then January will be OVER. Things will be better (for me, at least) when it's not January.


Laura - Jan 31, 2014 11:13:53 am PST #8765 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I think I'm going to keep my "who's" mistake up there, just for you, Tep.

Hey, it made me smile...


Zenkitty - Jan 31, 2014 11:24:16 am PST #8766 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

bonny, that was an awesome dream.

None of you suck! I know people who suck. Like, they sssuuuuuHUUUHuuuhhhk. None of you are even remotely close to being people who suck. Objectively. It is the Black Dog of Depression Lying on you. I hope that you're able to throw him off and feel better, soon.


meara - Jan 31, 2014 11:58:30 am PST #8767 of 30002

Don't worry, I often wish I could be Meara, what with the dancing and funniness and the traveling and the killer smile.

Aww! Next time I'm in LA we should hang out, Scrappy!

I think this might depend on who's objectivity we're talking about.

Lying Depression Beast is not objective.


beekaytee - Jan 31, 2014 12:33:59 pm PST #8768 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

None of you suck! I know people who suck. Like, they sssuuuuuHUUUHuuuhhhk. None of you are even remotely close to being people who suck.

What Zenkitty said!

Burrell, I love dreams too...and their sometimes straightforwardness. This one feels so direct and comforting to me. It really was awesome, Zen. Primarily because it didn't require anyone to do anything outside my control. Somehow that is really comforting.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2014 12:34:03 pm PST #8769 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Lying Depression Beast is not objective.

TRUE FUCKING STORY.


msbelle - Jan 31, 2014 12:37:23 pm PST #8770 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Here are somethings I love about Steph, whom I have only met once.

She is very smart and witty.
She knows from punctuation.
She shares her awesome drug knowledge with us, helping us hundreds of times over.
She has awesome hair (which, ok, maybe she had nothing to do with, BUT GO STEPH PARENT HAIR GENES!)
Her smile. I mean HAVE YOU SEEN HER SMILE?!?
She wore navy to her wedding
She geeks out like a pro.
She was brave and strong and put herself out there in the world to meet Tim.
She embraces hyperbole.


beekaytee - Jan 31, 2014 12:55:13 pm PST #8771 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

She shares her awesome drug knowledge with us, helping us hundreds of times over.

I love meara's whole list, but this one bears repeating as it speaks to so much giving and wisdom.

I love that Steph is so good to her fur-creatures...and has always been kindhearted towards mine.

I love that she included superheroes in her wedding.

I love that she shares cool gluten free recipes that are relevant to my interests.

I love that she loves goofy photos and shares them so that I can love them too.

I love that when I have been really, truly scared about my health, she has offered practical, caring advice.