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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2014 7:00:42 pm PST #8169 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I'd be happy to send a card too, Aims. I know just the one.

Plus? I was the smart, nerdy kid who got bullied. As an adult, all the mean girls went out of their ways to apologize to me when, really? I'm WAY better off.

I wouldn't say that to a child, but I'm living proof that living well is the best revenge.


meara - Jan 14, 2014 7:25:00 pm PST #8170 of 30002

Oh Aims, that sucks. I'm so sorry. If you send me your address I could send postcards...


Maria - Jan 14, 2014 8:44:08 pm PST #8171 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Aims, I'm so sorry. I was that girl too. I wish I could make it better for all of you.


P.M. Marc - Jan 14, 2014 9:14:48 pm PST #8172 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Aims, I'm sorry. I've been that kid.


Typo Boy - Jan 14, 2014 9:33:57 pm PST #8173 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I've been the male version of that kid. My empathy for her sympathy to all three of you.


Calli - Jan 15, 2014 1:26:27 am PST #8174 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Oh, Aims. Could I have your mailing address, too, please? Em is such a sweet kid.


Fred Pete - Jan 15, 2014 4:55:17 am PST #8175 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

All sympathies. I was there, too.


Aims - Jan 15, 2014 4:59:35 am PST #8176 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It's funny because here was the first place I went to talk about this because I knew that a large part of us went through this and we turned out SO COMPLETELY AWESOME and we found our people and we are loved and amazing and generous and lovely and so often, when unchecked and unsupported, kids who are bullied can go on to such tragic ends and it terrifies me that Joe and I aren't doing the right thing and that Em will feel lost and won't be able to find her own way. I am so glad I have you all.

Thank you. Thank you so much.


sj - Jan 15, 2014 5:28:20 am PST #8177 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aims, I would love to send a card to Emeline too. Does Em have a least one really good friend who doesn't give a damn about what the other kids think? Because I found that this made all the difference for me.


Aims - Jan 15, 2014 5:56:43 am PST #8178 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

She does. She has a few in her class and her Girl Scouts.