I don't know about you guys, but I've had it with super-strong little women who aren't me.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jan 14, 2014 4:47:44 pm PST #8152 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

This mama bear is broken hearted.

So one of the writing prompts for the MEAP (standardized state test) this year was "If you could change anything in your school, what would you change?" Emeline wrote about changing bullying. It got flagged by Lansing and sent to superintendent and then her principal. I got to go to the principal's office today and talk about Emeline's essay. She is still getting bullied. She feels alone and scared. They make fun of her for being the smallest and the youngest. The principal gave me a copy of what she wrote and I read it in his office and started crying. My poor baby.

Some of it was from 2nd grade and some was from earlier in the year before they got the permanent gym teacher, but my heart is broken.

What kills me is that she knows to not be alone because "bullies won't be mean to you if you are with someone else because they'll be afraid to do it in front of other people because they might tell." Why does she have to know that? It breaks me that she has to know that. And has to do it.

I made sure when we talked about it that she knew she was NOT in trouble and NO ONE was mad at her for what she wrote and that she was so brave for putting that down on paper and that she is probably helping other kids to not get bullied. We have scheduled a meeting with the principal for next week. She is upset about the meeting with the principal. She thinks the kids will make fun of her for "being in trouble".

But being her awesome self, she wants to do an anti-bullying project and make posters to hang up in the school and talk to kids about how bullying makes other kids feel. She doesn't want other kids to feel alone and scared.

Joe and I told her that we were so proud of her and that she was so brave to write all that down.

Maybe I'll just home school.


Aims - Jan 14, 2014 4:50:41 pm PST #8153 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

One of the things she wrote, "Nobody likes me and I try to be myself but they still make fun of me."


Hil R. - Jan 14, 2014 4:54:13 pm PST #8154 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oh, jeez. I just want to hug Emeline forever.


sj - Jan 14, 2014 4:54:19 pm PST #8155 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Oh, Aims. That is so heartbreaking. Kids can be so awful.


Vortex - Jan 14, 2014 5:12:45 pm PST #8156 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Aims, do you think it would help if Buffistas sent Em notes or cards of encouragement? Or is she at an age when grownup kudos isn't cool?


Aims - Jan 14, 2014 5:16:54 pm PST #8157 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It might. I honestly don't know. She's in such tween-mode that she could get some tomorrow and be all, "AWESOME!" and then the next day I'd get yelled at for telling other people about what she wrote.

She does love getting mail though and keeps it all. And I love you for offering. I wish I could fix it for her but I need to support her and give her language and tools to stick up for herself. And, okay, starting karate lessons was Joe's idea which I'm totally down with.


Laura - Jan 14, 2014 5:36:10 pm PST #8158 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Aims! Hugs to all of you. It would be wonderful if we could keep them protected from all pain. It is truly a sign of her awesomeness that she was able to articulate her struggles.


smonster - Jan 14, 2014 6:07:40 pm PST #8159 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Aims, I'd love to send her a card. Send me your address at my profile addy?

And Cass, thanks. And good luck to you.


smonster - Jan 14, 2014 6:07:42 pm PST #8160 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Aims, I'd love to send her a card. Send me your address at my profile addy?

And Cass, thanks. And good luck to you.


juliana - Jan 14, 2014 6:14:49 pm PST #8161 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Aw, Em. Aims, I'll totally send her a card, if you like.

smonster, did you get an email from me at your profile addy?