I try to call people by what they perfer. I have a co worker right now with a name I can't pronounce right, it sucks because I've heard her say her name but somehow I saw it wrong.

There was a little work drama today I wish I could have handled. They are letting the seasonal people know if they are being kept on or let go. A few people are staying on as occasional/seasonal but most are either being let go or given part time positions. Either in what they are doing or in a different department. One of the cashiers is being let go and she is NOT taking it well. She's complained to everyone who has listened about how unfair it is and next week is her last week and she deserves to stay. On top of that she's complained/whined to EVERY department manager AND the store manager.

I over heard her telling the store manager that he was going to regret letting her go because she was such a great employee and he said something, like if they were hiring again she was free to apply and she might be considered. So she told him "I'm holding you to that." He responded, very incredulously "You're holding me to a maybe?".

I really really wanted to pull her aside, and say. "Look, I know it sucks to work hard at something and then not picked when it's what you really want. But the professional thing to do is say, 'I really want to thank you for the chance to work here. I learned a lot and I enjoyed my time. I wish I could stay on, but I understand that there are a lot of factors involved in making these kinds of decisions. I hope that if I apply for a position here in the future you will consider me for it.'

Becuase what she's doing is just reinforcing their decision to let her go.

But I don't know her that well so I didn't say anything. Although she's also told a few people that she's applying to the open part time jobs and when I heard that I wanted to just pull her aside and go, "Oh, honey. No. You've done this all wrong and killed your chance to work here."

Unfortunately the really annoying co worker was just regular part time and they are keeping here.

...I still call you Zen.

Even when I know your real name I'm likely to call you by your board name in person. Because that's how I knew you first, that's who you *are* to me. Exceptions for, like, Pix and Strix and Theo, and others, who I knew before those board names.

...I still call you Zen.

And I happily answer to it, because after all this time, all the people I've met using that name, and the fact that I picked it for myself, I feel more comfortable with that than my legal name.

I use Teppy as my name on FetLife, and there's a fair amount of cross-pollination with Facebook, and every one of our kinky friends know the Facebook rule is Do Not Mention It Do Not Even Hint About It Not Even As A Joke EVER. So I suspect whenever they see any Buffistas addressing me as "Teppy" on Facebook, they are REALLY baffled by it.

Eeep. Just thinking how often I call you Teppy on FB.

Eeep. Just thinking how often I call you Teppy on FB.

It's seriously no big deal. No deal of any size, actually. For reals. It's 100% just a source of amusement to me.

Ok. I'll Teppy away.

So is Madame Teppilicious right out?

Empress Teppalina of The Teplands?

Scrappy, what a faux pas!

We're now the Central Republic of the United Teplands.