But we can be two women worried about a guy important to us both and we can look for areas of friendship.
That is really a good way to look at it. Sounds like you really made today work between you two.
Everything crossed for your Hubby.
Zoe: Captain will come up with a plan. Kaylee: That's good. Right? Zoe: Possibly you're not recalling some of his previous plans.
'Safe'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Cass - Jan 10, 2014 5:28:31 pm PST #8030 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
WindSparrow - Jan 10, 2014 6:09:44 pm PST #8031 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Connie, I'm so very glad that things went better with his daughter than expected. That really takes a load off where I'm sending the ~ma.
beth b - Jan 10, 2014 6:47:56 pm PST #8032 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
So glad things went better than you had hoped with his daughter. My best to you all
Nora Deirdre - Jan 10, 2014 6:58:11 pm PST #8033 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
But we can be two women worried about a guy important to us both and we can look for areas of friendship.
That's great. I'm glad her presence wasn't interpersonally stressful and I hope maybe you two can actually support each other through this in a way that helps you both.
erin_obscure - Jan 10, 2014 7:03:51 pm PST #8034 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
may the ride to the top of that hill be as smooth as possible~ma
In unrelated, humorous to me news, i just told me younger cat that he has the softest empty ball sack i've ever petted. A little redundant, really, it's the only empty ball sack i've ever touched. Elder cat doesn't allow such shenanigans.
Zenkitty - Jan 10, 2014 7:16:14 pm PST #8035 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Connie, what they said. I'm glad it's working out better than you feared it would. sometimes people surprise us in a good way.
Erin, my gray cat confounded me when I met him because I thought he hadn't been neutered. Vet assured me that it was a sack with no balls in it. I thought that was very thoughtful of his previous people. Less traumatic, I guess.
Cass - Jan 10, 2014 7:39:02 pm PST #8036 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
In unrelated, humorous to me news, i just told me younger cat that he has the softest empty ball sack i've ever petted. A little redundant, really, it's the only empty ball sack i've ever touched. Elder cat doesn't allow such shenanigans.
One night my ex-gf reached back from our bed one night to pet our cat who was standing on the window sill. She intended, I am certain, to scratch him under his chin. That is not where she pet him. It was hilarious.
I thought that was very thoughtful of his previous people. Less traumatic, I guess.
Less traumatic, how?
There's taking, basically, the balls out of the sac and leaving empty sac or untangling things and snipping just the bits that contribute to excess kittens. As I understand it.
... I bet this conversation is more uncomfortable for some dudes than when we discuss menstruation and cramps. Sorry? I hear that a bag of frozen peas is good for a sore testicular area. They conform.
aurelia - Jan 10, 2014 8:46:55 pm PST #8037 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Bonny, if I had the funds I'd send your neighbor a rose plant. Weekly.
Shir - Jan 10, 2014 11:32:30 pm PST #8038 of 30002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
aurelia FTW.
edited: also, meara, ouch. I cringed just by reading the description.
erin_obscure - Jan 10, 2014 11:41:14 pm PST #8039 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
That is a marvelous idea. I'd totally pitch in!