For those of you who parent 1 child and get any shit about it, I have no siblings, and my father has no siblings. His father had no siblings.
We all turned out okay. We don't/didn't have maladaptive behaviors. It is all well and good to say you might want kids to take care of you when you get older, but my mother has a brother who has been completely unreliable. She didn't have his help when my grandmother fell into ill health and later died.
Sometimes your kids pre-decease you.
Life sucks. All we can do is live it and be okay with our choices and life circumstances and try not to be assholes.
Although it will probably a long wait for an appointment or take a long time.
This wouldn't be much different than the insurance plan with the waiting period.
you've never had a paper cut? or first cut of today's paperwork?
I've had them before. But rarely. So, first for this multi-day task. Ow.
I'm seeing a kung fu action movie, where one person threatens "The death of a thousand cuts!" while brandishing their sword. And the other one threatens "The death of a thousand paper cuts!" while brandishing a manila folder. See who cringes.
"I have a ream of sharp paper, and..." reaches over shoulder, "A Super-Soaker full of lemon juice!"
I can hear Hubby snoring through the wall. He's dreading the bone marrow draw tomorrow morning. He so hates IVs. Good thoughts for a simple procedure and favorable news. May the odds be ever in his favor.
Ever in his favor.
Glad he's getting sleep tonight. And thinking of you both. It is a rough time but he's beaten so many things, I think he's got more win left.
tons of in-his-favor~ma! Glad he's getting some sleep.
Lots of ~ma for your hubby, Connie.
Thinking of you and Hubby today, Connie.
