I happen to be very biteable, pal. I'm moist and delicious.

Xander ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Dec 21, 2013 5:51:44 am PST #7433 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I went to a wedding last summer where the bride was Muslim and the groom was Southern Baptist. Both sets of parents wanted no alcohol at the wedding. The bride and groom wanted alcohol. They finally compromised on each guest getting one glass of wine for a toast.


Steph L. - Dec 21, 2013 6:00:30 am PST #7434 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

You totes magotes were lying about that food all year long thing, weren't you?

Busted!


sj - Dec 21, 2013 6:50:17 am PST #7435 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It looks like I have to have a (most likely benign) cyst removed from my uterus sometime next month. Another delay in trying to get pregnant. I'm trying not to let all of this ruin the holidays for me, but since I already find the holidays to be very stressful, I'm mostly failing. My favorite part of the holidays is usually Christmas Eve with my family, but my uncle is still in and out of the hospital with lung problem, so once again this year, most of my family won't be there.

Today we have tickets to a play. So I'm hoping to be able to relax and enjoy that.


Liese S. - Dec 21, 2013 7:37:10 am PST #7436 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh sj, how hard.


Burrell - Dec 21, 2013 8:12:28 am PST #7437 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh sj, not fun news. FWIW I had a benign cyst removed when I was about 30. It was done laproscopically. I was scared as it was my first surgery, but the recovery was surprisingly fast, well under a week. I will be sending you quick recovery~ma. Meanwhile yes, try to put the stress aside and enjoy the play.


sj - Dec 21, 2013 8:28:37 am PST #7438 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Burrell, they're not even putting me under, just Valium. They think it is small enough that they can get it laparoscopically In the office. They said I should be feeling fine within a week of the procedure.


Burrell - Dec 21, 2013 8:29:49 am PST #7439 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

That's good, sj. It'll all be fine.


le nubian - Dec 21, 2013 10:36:10 am PST #7440 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

sj,

Just a tip: bring a change of underwear and feminine napkins with you for after the procedure. They may tell you to do this. In which case your medical staff will be more thoughtful than mine was post uterine surgery.


omnis_audis - Dec 21, 2013 11:18:21 am PST #7441 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Lifehacker has an article on basics of creating a budget when you don't have a regular paycheck.

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sj - Dec 21, 2013 3:35:51 pm PST #7442 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Just a tip: bring a change of underwear and feminine napkins with you for after the procedure. They may tell you to do this. In which case your medical staff will be more thoughtful than mine was post uterine surgery.

Thanks. I've been bringing a change of underwear for all of these many tests I've had to go for, and the office where they do the procedure always has sanitary pads.

I did manage to have a lovely time in Providence with TCG today. Vanya and Sonya and Masha and Spike was very funny, and then we went for thin crust grilled pizza, walked around a bit and bought some panettone for relatives, and had dessert (lemon mousse cake) at my favorite little cafe. Even though I feel like some of my family's holiday traditions are disappearing, it's nice to shop in the same neighborhood my grandmother would have shopped in (at some of the same stores) and have some traditional foods.