Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
I like it, ND.
Ginger, more often than not, I help people figure out how to talk about things. We change the "Life Script."
I get calls from people, years later, telling me that they faced something successfully because they heard my voice in their heads. The tools are pithy 'thought replacements' that bring a more balances perspective into any given moment.
It isn't JUST about dealing with crisis though...it's about finding the language to make a good relationship better...finding the right livelihood, no matter where you are on the career path...letting go of family burdens...learning the truth about yourself and loving it.
eta: OH. And what sets me apart is that I'm NOT like many therapists or coaches who follow a set program and hope you fit into it, or who let you wander all over the track, hoping you will eventually stumble on the answer.
We TRY stuff that is specific to your situation and come to grips with what is underneath what you say too and about yourself.
I am not for people who don't want to be confronted (in a warm and compassionate way always!) or who can't get past 'yes/but'.
My stuff works fast and deeply. Thus, the more upfront "We Need To Talk."
It's not, 'hey do you think you might want to consider feeling better?' Lots of people need that, but they are not my clients.
Changing Your Life Script: a webshow that tackles life's tough stuff.
We Need to Talk: a webshow to help you change your life
I am not for people who don't want to be confronted (in a warm and compassionate way always!) or who can't get past 'yes/but'.
You might want to put that in somewhere, because the phrase "We Need to Talk" immediately puts my hackles up. Is this being designed for people browsing for someone to help them, or would they be looking for you already?
Ouch Nora, I hates burns! One piece of advice is to get some of those Tegaderm bandages. They really do speed up the healing process for things like burns by keeping the wound clean and moist.
I need to get a small crockpot, because the one we have is HUGE and just doesn't work for the two of us.
Bonny, I like the idea behind Ginger's suggestion of "We Need To Talk", but I also have an ingrained "oh no, what's wrong" reaction to that particular phrase.
We Need To Talk: A web show about how to get unstuck.
I had a long talk with a Peace March friend of mine who has been a marketer for the last 30 years.
We picked through a lot of stuff and she kept asking, "What is the action?"
In the end, the action is, I help people get unstuck.
1 I will listen deeply to you and together we will figure out what’s really going on
2 You will discover the hard truth about yourself and chances are good, you will learn to love it.
3 We’ll take action to move you forward by finding out what is behind “I don’t know what to do.”
What's it like working with me?
I'm appreciative, supportive and proactive.
I'm compassionately intolerant and I love ya too much to leave you stuck.
She really like this, but I'm hesitant to use it. While it is totally true and people really want it, it isn't the core of my message...
When it comes down to it, getting past the tough stuff in life sometimes you someone to tell you what to do.
She also said I need to lose the phone in my logo, which means changing EVERYTHING else. I sure wish I'd thought to call her before I shelled out on a bunch of stuff.
Still, having something to work against focused our talk.
Phew. I feel so much better.
I cross posted with Jilli.
I totally get the negative connotation. I'm always saying how We Need To Talk are the four scariest words...followed closely by 'we need to talk about money' and 'we need to talk about US.'
I need to be provocative to stand out!
My local media expert wanted me to change the theme of the show to 'Shit Messed Up People Say' and focus on why Miley Cyrus seems so screwed up. That's a bit more 'controversy' than I am comfortable with.
Yikes, Nora! I hope it heals quickly.
IOworkN, I just got voluntold (thanks whoever came up with that word, sorry I cannot remember which spicy brain it came from) to accompany one of the individuals to Hooters for his birthday. For weeks he had been saying he wanted to go to a strip club, but his dad suggested Hooters for dinner instead.
Yeah, I think forcing employees to go to a strip club would be a lawsuit waiting to happen. As it is, mandatory Hooter-ing seems like a hostile workplace thing. (Note: I'm not a lawyer.). Does HR know about this?
I need to get a small crockpot, because the one we have is HUGE and just doesn't work for the two of us.
Yeah, ours is huge too, but it just means we have a lot of leftovers to freeze or eat all week. And the huge one is great for making massive amounts of granola all at once.
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We also got this 2-quart crockpot for the wedding (I had the idea that I might want to make hot dips or something), and it turns out to be perfect for making steel cut oats overnight for the 2 of us: [link]
My local media expert wanted me to change the theme of the show to 'Shit Messed Up People Say'
That is pretty catchy, though. But I know I'm far more irreverent and fine with swear words than the average person is. I tried to start thinking of examples you could use (other than Miley Cyrus), and realized they could all come from my family. Like "I'm worried about his blood sugar, because he always passes out after drinking too much."
Yes. That was an actual comment from an extremely smart person who didn't want to cop to the fact that it wasn't blood *sugar* level that was a problem, but blood *alcohol* level.
