Brain~ma, Laura. There are no easy answers for this one, but I hope that you find the answers that work for you with a minimum of fuss and bother.
'Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy.' 'Today, we were kidnapped by hill folk never to be seen again. It was the best day ever.'
Jayne ,'Safe'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
WindSparrow - Dec 06, 2013 7:38:53 am PST #6920 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
omnis_audis - Dec 06, 2013 8:03:01 am PST #6921 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Connie, I echo what has been said up thread. We are here for you, in all ways you need it. Vent. Be...whatever. We will be strong for you. And tons of health~ma for hubby.
Laura, that is scary. But wipe that guilt away. Shit happens. That's what family and friends are for. It's not like you saw the seizure valve, and leaned on it by accident. In the mean time, take it easy for a bit. Listen to the doctors. Don't rack your brain with too many "what if's..." Don't fall down any rabbit holes on the internet, looking up things. And let's hope it's a crazy one time event. Relax. Let the fuzzy dissipate. Then slowly ramp up,back into life... But maybe, not full throttle. I think you have a great excuse now.
le nubian - Dec 06, 2013 8:10:18 am PST #6922 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Laura,
goodness. I am glad you are okay right now.
Zenkitty - Dec 06, 2013 8:14:09 am PST #6923 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Oh, dear, too much bad stuff today. Laura and Connie, much ~ma for both of you and for Connie's Hubby. Echoing what everyone else has said. Laura, it's good to hear that Bobby stepped up when you needed him!
DCJensen - Dec 06, 2013 8:24:06 am PST #6924 of 30002
All is well that ends in pizza.
2013, Leave the Buffistas the f**k alone.
erikaj - Dec 06, 2013 8:25:24 am PST #6925 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
Connie, that's rough.
Calli - Dec 06, 2013 8:27:07 am PST #6926 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Goodness, Laura. I'm glad you're ok now. And I hope someone can help shift some of the stress off you, since your body seems to be making it pretty clear it's too much.
Sean K - Dec 06, 2013 8:42:46 am PST #6927 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Laura! Oh how scary!
Sean K - Dec 06, 2013 10:54:38 am PST #6928 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
I just broke down sobbing uncontrollably in front of my fucking lanlord trying to explain to him that I don't have ANY money for rent, and that my roommate owes me $1,500.
He was supposed to solve a fucking problem, not cause more.
I feel like such a complete fucking loser and failure at life right now. This is destroying a fuck ton of work I've done with my fucking therapist over the last four years.
I don't know how I'm supposed to apply for a fucking minimum wage service job when I can't even fucking look at myself in the fucking mirror.
omnis_audis - Dec 06, 2013 11:25:44 am PST #6929 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
What did the landlord say? Hopefully s/he was understanding.
{{{ Hugs }}}