bonny - can you pre emptively contact Animal Control to let them know about what is going on your side of the situation in case they don't contact you?
Spike: Or maybe Captain Forehead was feeling a little less special. Didn't like me crashing his exclusive club, another vampire with a soul in the world. Angel: You're not in the world, Casper.
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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
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askye - Dec 06, 2013 3:28:29 am PST #6899 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
brenda m - Dec 06, 2013 3:39:16 am PST #6900 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I hate telling meat people these sorts of things, because they gush at me in my personal space and I have to deal with their dramatic reactions in real time instead of being able to make announcements and then retreat into the shadows for a couple of minutes while the reaction takes place and then settles. And then I have to reassure *them* that I'm coping etc.
God, Connie, I remember that so well from my mom. Having this place where I didn't have to put up a front or soothe other peoples emotions was such a gift.
And I'm very sorry it's needed, but so glad we're here to give you the same thing when you need it. I'm relieved to hear from those more knowledgable and really really hope for the possible outcome for you two.
amyth - Dec 06, 2013 3:53:27 am PST #6901 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
Connie, just want to echo what others said above. So sorry. Hope this can be a safe space for whatever you need.
Trudy Booth - Dec 06, 2013 4:18:21 am PST #6902 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Feel free to fall apart spectacularly, Connie!
Sue - Dec 06, 2013 4:51:11 am PST #6903 of 30002
hip deep in pie
Wishing for the best outcomes for your hubby Connie. And all the -ma for both of you.
lisah - Dec 06, 2013 5:17:08 am PST #6904 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate
Ugh, yeah, Connie that sucks ass. Wishing easy treatment and recovery for your husband and strength for you to get through it all.
Steph L. - Dec 06, 2013 5:19:40 am PST #6905 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I hate telling meat people these sorts of things, because they gush at me in my personal space and I have to deal with their dramatic reactions in real time instead of being able to make announcements and then retreat into the shadows for a couple of minutes while the reaction takes place and then settles. And then I have to reassure *them* that I'm coping etc.
Yup. On top of everything else, you have to manage *their* emotions.
SuziQ - Dec 06, 2013 5:22:14 am PST #6906 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Oh man. Connie, lots of ~ma to hubby. I made a fuck cancer post in Natter regarding a good friend of mine.
Fuck cancer with a rusty disease covered crowbar.
Burrell - Dec 06, 2013 5:36:24 am PST #6907 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Connie, I'm so sorry. Sending you and your DH so much ~ma.
Laura - Dec 06, 2013 5:51:33 am PST #6908 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
waves weakly
Much ~ma all round for Sean, and Connie's hubby, and all in need.
Terrifying health stuff happening here. In the middle of the night last Sunday I suffered a massive seizure. They released me from the hospital yesterday. I think. My mind is still very fuzzy. Got a bunch of bruises and my tongue is bit up pretty good. Best guess on cause is my overwhelming life. Too much going on and burning the candle at both ends caught up with me.
Trying to do my research to decide how to proceed. I'm not keen on the idea of taking medication. All the tests came back negative so I don't have an obvious brain issue of some kind. Just scared and upset about burdening my family.