You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Burrell - Jun 03, 2013 2:23:12 pm PDT #671 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Somebody tell me to get off my butt and get in the shower.

Someone should have told me the same, but it's too late now. Shower will have to wait for bedtime.


§ ita § - Jun 03, 2013 2:51:24 pm PDT #672 of 30002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Laura, you are part and parcel of the Most Amazing Ex Club. If I have to get dumped, I hope it's by someone in your circle.


WindSparrow - Jun 03, 2013 3:12:20 pm PDT #673 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Andi! Get off your butt and wash your stinky self! Right now, missy!

Done. Also? Picnicked and stopped at the store to acquire the velcro that I promised I would bring to fix something for someone tomorrow at work.


Cass - Jun 03, 2013 7:46:59 pm PDT #674 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

most mornings - waking up and getting out of bed is just what you do. On rare occassions - I can actually bounce of bed. and then I hit weeks where getting out of bed is just stupid and ridiculously hard

This is so awfully true.

I'm 34 days clean.
I relapsed today. But I didn't click on Femail.

I haven't gone there today. But I also haven't checked my guilty pleasure links yet today. That place is awful but I click like it's crack.

Laura, you are part and parcel of the Most Amazing Ex Club. If I have to get dumped, I hope it's by someone in your circle.

Seriously.

Ugh, I was social tonight but I woke up feeling ugh so it took conserving all of my spoons. Since it was the cocktails and dinner with the local movers and shakers (and an ex's Mom, as happens), it was worth it but I think I used all of the spoons. And I got scolded again by my mayor (who is also my postman) for not picking up a package. Fair enough. (I picked up my mail on the way home. Shame done with humor, it works.)


WindSparrow - Jun 03, 2013 7:50:44 pm PDT #675 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Harvey is 15. He's going in for annual shots/checkup on Wednesday. I'm going to have to confess to having discontinued his urinary tract acidifier without having contacted the veterinarian about it. They knew the stuff was causing him some tummy upset, and guided me through finding a dosage level that would not make him lose his lunch every day. But even with that, when he threw up again after several days of mostly holding his food down, I just could not make myself give him the pill anymore. And since then his energy level has skyrocketed. He's running circles around Sammie, who is 11. I haven't seen him this energetic in years. I presume it is due in part to having to eat prescription food which included a form of urinary acidifier and which was otherwise not as high quality nutrition as what he is eating now. (I cheated even then, and gave him half prescription food and half good food)

I will have them collect a urine sample. I hope to heaven that he is crystal-free and not too terribly in need of more medication to prevent crystals reforming.

I can't do it. I can't make myself give him medication that makes him feel crappy.


Zenkitty - Jun 03, 2013 7:55:32 pm PDT #676 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I think I wouldn't give him the meds in that case, either, Windsparrow, FWIW. Happier is better.


Cass - Jun 03, 2013 8:08:10 pm PDT #677 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I can't do it. I can't make myself give him medication that makes him feel crappy.

I believe strongly in quality of life over quantity. For every species. But especially for pets who trust us so completely with their well-being.

I know that my vet worked with me for years finding the best treatments for Kittenish that also gave her the best quality of life. We found out that I could give her a second dose of her thyroid meds via a transdermal cream and that made her so much happier than liquid meds twice a day where she'd flinch whenever I touched her.

Talk things over with your vet, of course, but Harvey's happiness is important. Don't discount that.


beekaytee - Jun 03, 2013 8:17:46 pm PDT #678 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I totally agree on quality of life.

If I had _only_ known Bartleby's true condition, I would never, ever have gone to extraordinary measures. He seemed happy enough, but it had to be incredibly painful. His happiness and well-being were always paramount in my heart. So, yeah, I'm with you Andi.

I haven't gone there today. But I also haven't checked my guilty pleasure links yet today. That place is awful but I click like it's crack.

Honestly, I found my self squirming and trying to shut my eyes against it, but I would. not. look. away.

It got to the point where I was sort of ashamed of myself for polluting my own mind.

But. They DO have excellent dog stories on the regular. I just couldn't look past all the other stuff...even for my own good.


Sean K - Jun 04, 2013 8:38:07 am PDT #679 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Can I get some volunteers for cover letter proofreading?


sj - Jun 04, 2013 9:07:56 am PDT #680 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I can look at it, Sean.