Wesley: Hey. Hey, Gunn. Is something weird going on? … Charles, you just peed on my shoes. Gunn: I'll be damned. That's weird.

'Life of the Party'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - Nov 15, 2013 11:09:27 am PST #6335 of 30002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I hate the fact that the no-management ceiling is so damned low. Bless Countrywide for that--they had clear career pathing, and every pay/prestige level up to (and including) VP was open to people who didn't want to manage people. I have no idea if this place has a "next" for me, and I certainly don't want to go back to management, especially not how it works here (although the bare minimum I'd have to do wouldn't be much, they wouldn't be tasks I would want to add).

Getting your wishes across must be harder when when you travel a lot too--remote there's not so much ability to get the subtext across, I'd think. But coming back to someone and telling them what they want when they haven't told you flat out? Not slick management.


SuziQ - Nov 15, 2013 11:16:01 am PST #6336 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Part of our review process is being rated as "meeting expectations", "not meeting expectations", or "exceeding expectations". Which is kind of a bitch. I work my ass off. Everyone knows I work my ass off. It is expected of me. So how the heck can I ever "exceed expectations"?

I need to do my self-eval by next Tuesday and I HATE doing those things. And I need to do this one with the heavy slant toward - GIVE ME A GRADE INCREASE - which my boss supports, but it has to go up the chain, so the better the documentation, the easier it will be for them to approve.


NoiseDesign - Nov 15, 2013 11:40:36 am PST #6337 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

Discussions like these are why I like owning a company, and not working for one.


Trudy Booth - Nov 15, 2013 11:55:46 am PST #6338 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Seriously, who says to someone who is handicapped, "The best blessing in the world is to have a normal child"?

And I'll just bet that replying, "Well, better a handicapped child than a normal one who grows up to be an ass hole I suppose" is somehow rude, huh?


sj - Nov 15, 2013 12:00:03 pm PST #6339 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

And I'll just bet that replying, "Well, better a handicapped child than a normal one who grows up to be an ass hole I suppose" is somehow rude, huh?

Since it was a relative, yes probably frowned on.


Trudy Booth - Nov 15, 2013 12:01:42 pm PST #6340 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Your family is WAY more polite than mine.


brenda m - Nov 15, 2013 12:03:01 pm PST #6341 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Your family is WAY more polite than mine.

The evidence seems to contradict this.


Ginger - Nov 15, 2013 12:23:43 pm PST #6342 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

And I'll just bet that replying, "Well, better a handicapped child than a normal one who grows up to be an ass hole I suppose" is somehow rude, huh?

Not if you add "hypothetically."


Dana - Nov 15, 2013 12:24:32 pm PST #6343 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Performance reviews are bullshit, Buffista conversation of truth #49.


SuziQ - Nov 15, 2013 12:34:42 pm PST #6344 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I have done onerous work related but yet will result in money for me tasks. Three expense sheets and one medical claim submittal. Should net some nice cash for holiday stuff. Of course, it is all reimbusing money I've already spent, but it feels like new money.