Zen, your best bet would probably be one of the velvet matte lip pencils by NARS. [link]
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My wallet can hold a Burt's Bees balm at the very bottom and I can put a lip pencil (Wet & Wild #666, the pencil of the beast) in too. The tube has to be the very bottom though. And it's admittedly tight.
I am sorry you are in still in distress, Ginger. That is just sucktastic.
Zen, your best bet would probably be one of the velvet matte lip pencils by NARS.
Oooh, could I match MAC's Del Rio with that, I wonder. Because that is my OTLipColor. Apart from the pencil of the beast.
if I become aware of child abuse
The language I have seen, both in Minnesota and in Arizona, is "reason to suspect" abuse. They should spend a significant portion of the class going over various signs of abuse.
My wallet being as it is, it would have to be flat, and not real big. I can't use Burt's Bees for some reason; I think it's the lanolin. Makes my lips peel.
Ginger, I'm sorry your guts remain in turmoil. I hope it gets better soon.
I'm allergic to lanolin. I was using "Udderly Smooth", in the so-attractive holstein-patterned tub. It's great stuff for those who can use it--light, whipped, and it really does moisturize beautifully.
But after using it for a couple of years, it suddenly gave me a rash and the rash went bad quickly, so no more of that.
Burt's Bees has started putting out lanolin-free products, so there are some I can use. I got nothing that would fit in your wallet though, Zen. A pencil sounds like the best idea.
Ginger, ease-ma to your poor guts.
Sometimes between the food and the cosmetic ingredients I feel like I spend half my life reading teeny print on the sides of packaging.
Ginger, I hope you feel better soon.
Ginger, Harvey sends his best purr vibes to your innards.
Dear new house manager type person who just applied for the supervisor job:
Yeah, I can actually in fact tell the difference between someone trying to draw me into bad-mouthing a co-worker and someone who is asking an experienced employee about the best strategies for handling certain behaviors. Guess who is going to have a conversation with the Regional Director about those subtle differences?
Good luck with that job app. No love, Me