Well, for an Onerous Task, it went better than expected. They were even nice, but I'm glad they're gone. Bye, Felicia.
Hello? Gay now!
Willow ,'Showtime'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
erikaj - Oct 01, 2013 2:44:51 pm PDT #5217 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
Steph L. - Oct 01, 2013 2:49:53 pm PDT #5218 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Besides, Teppy, as much as you mistakenly think you're a burden to him, Tim just swore in front of witnesses that he's willing to look after you. I don't think he's going to let you go down the rabbit hole.
He won't. I just feel like a HUGE asshole, because I'm essentially saying "Holy fuck I am DEPRESSED!", about 2 nanoseconds after I said "I do."
There ought to be a little bit of a honeymoon period on the crazy, is what I'm thinking.
He's never had to deal with this. When we got together, we had the conversation of "You have depression? No way! *I* have depression!" Which is charming in a whole Silver Linings Playbook kind of way, I suppose. And I remember telling him, WAY back, "I hope you never have to see my depression when it's REALLY bad. It's under control with meds," etc., etc.
I know we have a long (please god) life ahead of us, but I didn't want to subject him to this immediately after he put a ring on it. Bah.
erikaj - Oct 01, 2013 2:52:06 pm PDT #5219 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
I feel you on that, Tep. (Not that I've been married, but for other things.)
meara - Oct 01, 2013 3:05:18 pm PDT #5220 of 30002
It may be ex cloaca but there's actual science behind it. Which is why for example people like my mom would always get a raging migraine to start off any vacation.
I'm much more likely to have migraines on Fridays or Saturdays. Good because I can't call in sick to somewhere I flew to get to. But no fun.
sj - Oct 01, 2013 3:10:13 pm PDT #5221 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Teppy, I was also depressed after my wedding and after buying our house. It happens.
WindSparrow - Oct 01, 2013 3:13:13 pm PDT #5222 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Well, for an Onerous Task, it went better than expected. They were even nice, but I'm glad they're gone. Bye, Felicia.
Well, I am glad that it was not as awful as it could have been.
erikaj - Oct 01, 2013 3:47:17 pm PDT #5223 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
It's still hard to tell someone how many minutes per day you spend in the toilet.
smonster - Oct 01, 2013 4:02:14 pm PDT #5224 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Well, I am glad that it was not as awful as it could have been.
Yeah, that.
Steph, i'm really sorry that this is happening to you at a time when you really want to be happy. That sucks incredibly much. It's not fucking fair.
Burrell - Oct 01, 2013 8:07:20 pm PDT #5225 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Steph and sj, much ~ma to both of you.
Ain't no one playin' "Sucks more to be me," just "Sometimes shit do suck surely."
So fucking true.
Maria - Oct 01, 2013 8:41:01 pm PDT #5226 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Bad night. Having to drink with new co-workers hasn't helped. I feel like I've failed at every personal relationship I've ever tried to have.