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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - May 24, 2013 7:35:57 am PDT #503 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

cross posting :)


erin_obscure - May 24, 2013 7:39:15 am PDT #504 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

and i guess the backstory is that my mind was blown because that referral from my ob/gyn came after months of misery and me worrying that i was broken and dysfunctional and would never have fun sexy times again. And being afraid to talk about it with anyone other than my BFF who finally prodded me to go to the Dr. Makes me wonder how many other ladies are suffering and think it's something they can't do anything about.


Trudy Booth - May 24, 2013 7:57:22 am PDT #505 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I know more than a few people who could stand to have that discussion, actually, erin.


erin_obscure - May 24, 2013 8:14:11 am PDT #506 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

And it's totally fixable! Ok, the treatment isn't "fun" per se, but it ain't surgery or harsh meds and at least now the sick feeling of dread in the pit of my stomach over that particular issue has lifted. Plus, the boy finds it highly intriguing.


Burrell - May 24, 2013 8:21:12 am PDT #507 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Not every woman has a partner.

Hence my use of the word "or". But erin's and Steph's explanations are very helpful. I am not surprised it's a thing as I know back-to-back babies did a number on a whole slew of muscle groups for me, ranging from abs down to pelvis, and I've been doing various exercises for years to bring it all back into whack.


Burrell - May 24, 2013 8:22:20 am PDT #508 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Plus, the boy finds it highly intriguing.

That's good.


Kate P. - May 24, 2013 8:29:19 am PDT #509 of 30002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

erin, I had a gyno give me dilators to use back in college, and I used them (off and on) for years. I agree, it's strange to find out how common that kind of problem is.

that referral from my ob/gyn came after months of misery and me worrying that i was broken and dysfunctional and would never have fun sexy times again.

Oh yeah, I know that feeling very well, and I'm so glad you're getting the treatment you need to overcome it!


smonster - May 24, 2013 8:51:02 am PDT #510 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Plus, the boy finds it highly intriguing.

Wait, is this the geeky pilot?


erin_obscure - May 24, 2013 9:03:36 am PDT #511 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Yes, the pilot! Things are going well :)


smonster - May 24, 2013 9:04:49 am PDT #512 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

erin, that is so awesome! I'm so happy for you.