I'm so pleased bonny!
Willow: Yikes. Imagine the things...Buffy: No! Stop imagining! All of you! Xander: Already got the visual.
'Dirty Girls'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
le nubian - Sep 20, 2013 4:41:19 pm PDT #4897 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Java cat - Sep 20, 2013 5:14:33 pm PDT #4898 of 30002
Not javachik
Hello, it's been a long time. Teppy's getting married and has a new job? Awesome! Glad your friend is okay bonnie.
erika, one of the things in Temple Grandin's new book The Autistic Brain is about eye contact, how for many people on the spectrum, direct eye contact can = sensory overload. Not sure if it applies to you but FYI. [link] It's a heck of a good book.
Steph L. - Sep 20, 2013 5:16:04 pm PDT #4899 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I have hard time with eye contact, actually. It's going to make tomorrow a little challenging.
Connie Neil - Sep 20, 2013 5:17:28 pm PDT #4900 of 30002
brillig
I learned that eye contact beyond the very briefest duration was aggressive. Or maybe just pushy. I'm good at looking at cheekbones.
Java cat - Sep 20, 2013 5:31:47 pm PDT #4901 of 30002
Not javachik
Found this on T Grandin's website, Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships: Decoding Social Mysteries Through the Unique Perspectives of Autism, [link] which sounds interesting. Not one library in the Bay Area LINK+ system has it!
I spent so much time staring at someone and doing bullbaiting during my late teens and early 20s in the C of S cult that I take it for granted that my perspective on eye contact is warped.
Laura - Sep 20, 2013 5:51:50 pm PDT #4902 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
Awww, Teppy! You know that we all are with you tomorrow. Completely non-invasive hugs and kisses for the bride, of the virtual variety. Although you do know I would have a really really hard time stopping myself from real hugs if I were there. Your new DH is good with hugs, right? The next time we meet perhaps he can be the hug proxy.
Hey, Java cat! Good to see you.
I don't really have an issue with eye contact. Although some people seem to go overboard.
le nubian - Sep 20, 2013 6:10:15 pm PDT #4903 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Tep,
have a wonderful day tomorrow! I am sure all will go well. You have all of us with you in spirit.
Zenkitty - Sep 20, 2013 6:12:45 pm PDT #4904 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Happy wedding, Steph and Tim!
beekaytee - Sep 20, 2013 6:15:58 pm PDT #4905 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
It's tomorrow?!
I've been so caught up in a the dram-ma around here, I wasn't keeping track.
Steph, I hope it is a day filled with more satisfaction and joy than you can even imagine.
Oh my. I'm so happy for you and Tim.
I'll be tossing virtual bird seed for you. Hurrah!
beekaytee - Sep 20, 2013 6:20:53 pm PDT #4906 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
I have to confess, I'm a little verklempt over Steph's bouquet.
So sweet.