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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Sep 15, 2013 5:32:44 am PDT #4743 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I hate moving. That said I'm done. Well done ish. In trying to find a screwdriver last night I realized I left my "junk drawer" stuff and stuff under the sink.

And I probably lost the security deposit because there was 1 mystery problem with the floor and then while cleaning out the stove/tray thing and fridge I managed to gouge 4 more holes in there. You can't really see unless you look but they are there. I emailed ex landlady about my stuff and that I couldn't get up there until Thursday. Well, I could go up today but I'm not, Thursday I have off and I'm going to the yarn shop and I'll get the stuff then.

I was so mad at myself but I've been stressed out and tired and working a lot of hours (for me) plus learning a new position.


meara - Sep 15, 2013 8:41:03 am PDT #4744 of 30002

askye, is your new place closer to work?


erikaj - Sep 15, 2013 11:11:28 am PDT #4745 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Non-vitations piss me off, sj.


Hil R. - Sep 15, 2013 11:21:51 am PDT #4746 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I need to ask my supervisor for a letter of recommendation for applying for a new job for next year. Any suggestions on how I should phrase my email asking her?


DavidS - Sep 15, 2013 12:23:47 pm PDT #4747 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Any suggestions on how I should phrase my email asking her?

You should be very menacing and quote tv villains liberally but in a slightly demented way: "I am the one who knocks" should probably secure the job for next year.


Zenkitty - Sep 15, 2013 12:35:50 pm PDT #4748 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Hil, do you have to let your boss know you're looking? That would make me very uncomfortable.


Amy - Sep 15, 2013 12:57:06 pm PDT #4749 of 30002
Because books.

Hil, you can talk about looking for new challenges academically/professionally, and personally wanting to explore other areas before settling down to a "forever" place (or something like that).


Hil R. - Sep 15, 2013 1:03:34 pm PDT #4750 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Hil, do you have to let your boss know you're looking? That would make me very uncomfortable.

All the jobs I'm applying for require several letters of recommendation.

Hil, you can talk about looking for new challenges academically/professionally, and personally wanting to explore other areas before settling down to a "forever" place (or something like that).

Hmm. I can try something like that.


Scrappy - Sep 15, 2013 1:09:48 pm PDT #4751 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Also, you could bring up proximity to medical facilities.


flea - Sep 15, 2013 1:15:43 pm PDT #4752 of 30002
information libertarian

Honestly, with the state of the academic job market, no supervisor of Instructors should be at all surprised at their supervisees looking for other jobs. Unless the supervisor is a jerk, you just say, I am happy at [this place] but am also on the broader market this year.