What? I'm not allowed to hit people? Wesley: Not people capable of genocide. Angel: Those are exactly the types of people I should be allowed to hit!

'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Sep 11, 2013 8:06:26 am PDT #4543 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Scanma! Scanma!


sj - Sep 11, 2013 8:33:14 am PDT #4544 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Any spare interview~ma that can be directed toward TCG in the next couple of hours would be very much appreciated.


sj - Sep 11, 2013 8:33:58 am PDT #4545 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

So very much petscan~ma for Ginger!!!


lisah - Sep 11, 2013 8:53:02 am PDT #4546 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Trudy!


smonster - Sep 11, 2013 8:55:48 am PDT #4547 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Scan~ma for Ginger! Interview~ma for TCG.

I think ita ! has a valid point. It sucks to get dissed and to misread signals (been there, ouch) but equating "invite to apartment" with "makeout" is problematic.


Hil R. - Sep 11, 2013 9:02:20 am PDT #4548 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm giving a quiz now. This room is so crowded that there's really no way to monitor for cheating. Can't see everyone from the front of the room, no room to walk up and down the aisles, and each student can easily see three or four other papers.


Zenkitty - Sep 11, 2013 9:05:24 am PDT #4549 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Happy burthday, Trudy!

Scan ~ma, Ginger!

Interview ~ma for TCG!

Money ~ma for ND and Pix!

I've been out of the dating scene for SO long. If someone invited me into their flat after a date, I wouldn't know if it was a signal, or what. My luck, I'd err on the side of caution and leave, and then get a hurt-feelings text the next day.


Fred Pete - Sep 11, 2013 9:06:48 am PDT #4550 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

~mas as needed.

My dating history is primarily distinguished by how little there was of it before I met Hubs. But I'd interpret "invite to apartment" as a sign that the date wants to get to know you better in a way that may or may not be physical. I don't think it's necessarily bad form to try for a goodnight kiss after a first date, as long as you don't insist in the face of resistance.

I can say with some authority that misread signals happen. After 24 years, Hubs and I still misread each other's signals now and then.


juliana - Sep 11, 2013 9:14:23 am PDT #4551 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Scan~ma for Ginger, Interview~ma for TCG, and Cash~ma for ND & Pix (and everyone else).

Happy birthday, Trudy!


Nora Deirdre - Sep 11, 2013 9:21:08 am PDT #4552 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

juliana sighting!!