I didn't create the troll. I didn't date the troll. In fact I hate the troll. I helped deflate the troll-- All done.

Willow ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Sep 04, 2013 9:37:28 am PDT #4219 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Best of luck with the new social worker, erika.


erikaj - Sep 04, 2013 9:41:07 am PDT #4220 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I don't really care who they are, I just hope we can avoid the big fight we had last year.


erikaj - Sep 04, 2013 9:42:19 am PDT #4221 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Although it is always nice when a moment alone with that person doesn't make me all "KMN"


beekaytee - Sep 04, 2013 2:20:19 pm PDT #4222 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Zen, did you receive an email from me at about 10am today?

I sent it to your profile address but I've been having trouble with my email lately.


Steph L. - Sep 04, 2013 2:34:14 pm PDT #4223 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Okay, I am laughing my butt off. We got a wedding present today in the form of a check (very much welcome to fund our honeymoon and Oh God The Bathroom Is A Horror renovation fund). The check was made out to "Tim and Steph." That's it. No last names.

I don't think our bank is going to accept it. t sarcastic understatement I'm tempted to scribble my last name after "Steph" and then go to the bank with Tim and photo ID for both of us and explain we're engaged and...can we PLEASE deposit it?

Although I think altering a check is illegal.

You never read this.


Laura - Sep 04, 2013 2:37:05 pm PDT #4224 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Do you have a joint account? I just endorse checks 'For Deposit' with the account number on the back no matter how they are made out. They are pretty much processed by machine now anyway. Usually I make deposits via ATM.


Steph L. - Sep 04, 2013 2:40:20 pm PDT #4225 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

We don't have a joint account yet. I was hoping that scribbling my last name on the check would let me deposit it into my account. (I'm not greedy; it's just because it's made out to "Tim and Steph," so there's room after my name. If it was made out to "Steph and Tim," then Tim could scribble his name.)


beekaytee - Sep 04, 2013 2:43:35 pm PDT #4226 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I do what Laura does.

I get every variation of spelling on my clients' checks. The banks take them all. I even deposited a check made out to Bartleby Mylast-name once!


Strix - Sep 04, 2013 2:45:21 pm PDT #4227 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

You can scribble your name, and if your bank has ATM deposits, no ID. You'll be getting a lot of checks, and the account is in both your names, right?

I used to sign D's names on checks, and my handwriting is nice, and his is a scrawl -- no problem.


DavidS - Sep 04, 2013 2:48:02 pm PDT #4228 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

As noted, Teppy, if you deposit it through the ATM they don't give a shit.