The plan, such as it is, is for morning premarital sex. Because, seriously, even if the family weren't down the hall, I'm going to be full of cupcakes and so much champagne and I'm going to be exhausted from dancing my ass off and possibly chasing Tim's great-nephew on the lawn. Odds were never good for wedding-night sex anyway. But the family right down the hall pretty much nixes it.
I just think it's rather odd that a nation that prides itself on its virility should feel compelled to strap on forty pounds of protective gear just in order to play rugby.
Giles ,'Beneath You'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Steph L. - Sep 02, 2013 5:14:08 pm PDT #4170 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Strix - Sep 02, 2013 5:18:50 pm PDT #4171 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
We had Ye Olde Married Sexe the morning after. We were full of tapas, sangria and cocktails the night of, and were busy the day of.
I suppose we could have had a quickie in the car on the way to the restaurant from the ceremony....nah, backseat full of flowers, and too many support garments on me.
JZ - Sep 02, 2013 5:26:09 pm PDT #4172 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
We cuddled and snoodled and slept the sleep of those who have righteously danced their asses off. But there was no actual marriage night sex.
The sleeping, though? EPIC. Waking up the next morning was like being born all over again.
Nora Deirdre - Sep 02, 2013 5:30:54 pm PDT #4173 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
our ceremony was in the lobby of our inn, so all we needed to do was walk upstairs. We were all riled up and emotional anyway.
Scrappy - Sep 02, 2013 5:36:12 pm PDT #4174 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
We did, but then we eloped, so nothing to be tried about. I am sensing an elopment theme with Nora and myself and the marital night sexy times.
Nora Deirdre - Sep 02, 2013 5:37:06 pm PDT #4175 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Yes, exactly.
sj - Sep 02, 2013 5:37:09 pm PDT #4176 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
We did, but then we eloped, so nothing to be tried about.
Same here.
le nubian - Sep 02, 2013 5:46:38 pm PDT #4177 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
I did, between the ceremony and our dinner out.
Nora, you WIN.
Pix - Sep 02, 2013 5:47:17 pm PDT #4178 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.
Even though we eloped, my stomach was in knots that night (excitement? Seafood? Who knows), so we just collapsed. No big. Plenty of time for sexytimes aside from the wedding night.
Java, thanks so much for setting up the site. Our rescue Westside uses YouCaring, and I've been very impressed with them.
Nora Deirdre - Sep 02, 2013 6:00:29 pm PDT #4179 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
We'd spent the day at the spa, then hung out getting pictures taken and got married (which took all of 15 minutes), went up to the room, engaged in marital relations, took showers, went out to dinner at the place next door to our inn. I walked back from dinner barefoot.
On an unrelated note, I'm watching the rave episode of Spaced and losing my shit it's so funny.