Walking I get. But power walking? Why not just run for a shorter time?

Angel ,'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SuziQ - Aug 11, 2013 9:15:24 am PDT #3019 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Aims, that is craxy. I'm sorry those fucktards made your birthday less than absolutely fabulous.

I have 45 minutes until my massage. Wheeeeeee.


Laura - Aug 11, 2013 9:31:37 am PDT #3020 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Aims, that is craxy. I'm sorry those fucktards made your birthday less than absolutely fabulous.

And this! Also, I don't remember extending my wishes for the wonderful birthday you deserve.

Thanks for the comments on my 19 yo self. Honestly, it was a major developmental moment in my life that taught me to never accept the unacceptable. I am grateful it happened so early.

I also had a yelling boss when I was 25. This was a particular concern as I listened to him bark at all the other people in my first weeks on the job. I knew that I would surely burst out crying if he yelled at me. In particular since I was very unsure of what I was doing as the job was much more complex than my skill level. You never really can predict your response, but I shocked myself in a good way when the day came. He came into my office with the arms flaying and the curses flying. I stood up and actually yelled back at him. I told him we had two choices, he could do my job his way or I could do it my way, but if he wanted me to be responsible for the tasks I had to do it my way. He laughed and never yelled at me again. (how I didn't vomit I have no clue)

Over the years it seems that I have this mirror response. It is fight or flight no doubt because the alternative is to curl up in a ball and cry. My confidence level is often zip, but if it a choice between admitting my incompetence or being boldly defensive apparently my choice is instinctive.


Aims - Aug 11, 2013 9:32:03 am PDT #3021 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

The rest of the attendees - especially Joe - made sure I had a fabulous birthday. I was "caught" putting the candles on my cake and was promptly shooed out of the kitchen with a cocktail and put into my chair. Then I was "caught" again handing out cake to people and was shooed away. Then we played Cards Against Humanity where I won a round by making the phrase, "When I was tripping on acid, Hot Pockets turned into masturbation". Then we played a new-to-us game called "Telestrations" which is HIGHLARIOUS. We highly recommend it. It's Telephone and Pictionary combined and I don't know that I have ever laughed so hard in my LIFE.

It was a magnificent birthday. And in my attempting to be a responsible adult and balance the checkbook, I saw where Joe ordered my gift from (it hasn't arrived yet) and I know what it is and I am SO FLIPPING EXCITED to get it. (He doesn't know I know.)


Laura - Aug 11, 2013 9:34:46 am PDT #3022 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

It is so good to read that your birthday turned out perfect. So, you're getting a camel?!?


Aims - Aug 11, 2013 9:38:02 am PDT #3023 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Sadly, no. What I am getting is this: [link] on a black t-shirt. t bounce bounce bounce


Calli - Aug 11, 2013 9:38:58 am PDT #3024 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

MM should know better than to let "Camels R Us" show up on the bank statement if he wants it to be a surprise.

I'm glad the majority of your birthday was great!


Laura - Aug 11, 2013 9:39:30 am PDT #3025 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Nice!


Dana - Aug 11, 2013 9:58:24 am PDT #3026 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

le nubian - Aug 11, 2013 10:33:55 am PDT #3027 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Aims, that is the BEST.


Shir - Aug 11, 2013 11:01:40 am PDT #3028 of 30002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Awesome shirt, Aims. I'm sorry for the OMGWHAT folks invading your birthday like that, but glad that all in all it was great. And happy belated.

And also, I think of you whenever I see a camel.

In other news: tahini. It's so good. It's so tasty. Makes one want to accept it as a personal savior and preach its miracles to those who never heard about it.

Really. That good.