I get confused. I remember everything. I remember too much, and... some of it's made up, and... some of it can't be quantified, and... there's secrets.

River ,'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Mar 13, 2017 7:20:05 am PDT #29410 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm on day 12 of the whole30 diet. My pain and acid reflux are still much better, but I can still feel that a storm is coming in my joints a bit. And omg am I exhausted. I don't know if it's the diet or allergies or something else entirely but all I want to do is sleep. I'm waiting for ltc to finish lunch so we can both nap.


Hil R. - Mar 13, 2017 7:54:13 am PDT #29411 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Where did you find the teal one?

[link] They've also got blue, white, grey, and yellow.


Zenkitty - Mar 13, 2017 11:22:08 am PDT #29412 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I tried a high protein zero carb cat food from the list, worried they wouldn't eat it... all three gobbled it down and walked away licking whiskers. Success is sweet.


Sue - Mar 13, 2017 11:25:55 am PDT #29413 of 30002
hip deep in pie

I tried a high protein zero carb cat food from the list, worried they wouldn't eat it... all three gobbled it down and walked away licking whiskers. Success is sweet.

Just beware if you're cats are on the chubby side. The same amount food usually is much higher in calories. Poor Oz is on an all-protein hypo-allergenic diet right now, and it's almost double the calorie count of his last food. It's a really struggle between keeping him satiated and not letting him gain any more weight. (He's 23 lbs.)


Toddson - Mar 13, 2017 11:43:57 am PDT #29414 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

When I was in college, one of the boys was worried about his cat, since it had gotten quite pudgy. He tried cutting back on the amount of food, but kitty kept putting on weight.

Turned out he was catching and eating moles, mice, and other little furry things ... and the exercise wasn't offsetting the additional food. The groundskeepers were happy, though.


sj - Mar 13, 2017 11:52:03 am PDT #29415 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks for the link, Hil. I'll check that out when I need a new one.

This morning's adventures in parenting"

ltc: Dada?

Me: Dada's at work.

ltc: Nonni coming?

Me: Nonni's not coming today.

ltc: Poppy Nana.

Me: Poppy and Nana aren't coming today. It's just Mama today.

Such a look of disappointment on ltc's face.


Laura - Mar 13, 2017 12:29:45 pm PDT #29416 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, with toddlers just about anyone is more fun than Mom. I remember that one very well!


askye - Mar 13, 2017 1:06:57 pm PDT #29417 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

So therapy was interesting, hard to stay on topic today. Although it's kind of hard to stay on topic all the time. My therapist wants me to look into applying for disability, well he mentioned that last week and we talked about it more. I'm not sure if I have a chance or if it's worth it.


EpicTangent - Mar 13, 2017 4:19:21 pm PDT #29418 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Such a look of disappointment on ltc's face.

I felt so bad yesterday playing with my friend's 6-year-old, because my friend was exhausted and short on patience, thus making Auntie Mel so much more fun than Mommy. Poor Mommy gets such a bad rap. {{sj}}

Continued ~ma for Mom, please. Surgery tomorrow - a vein bypass to try to get improved blood flow down to her foot. The toes will be wait-and-see. Only 2 small incisions for the bypass, which is a huge relief in terms of healing, but it's still a bigger deal surgery than just the toes would have been. I was worried that there would be a wound from harvesting the vein to graft, but none of her others are good enough candidates, so they're using cadaveric tissue. Which I think is pretty awesome, but I think I won't bring up dead people parts around my mom.

eta: Also some show-your-face-you-dumb-cat-ma, if you please. I haven't seen the cat in a couple of days. Which isn't completely unheard of, since she doesn't like me and I've barely been home. But I am starting to be concerned that she's not just hiding, she got out and hasn't found her way back in.


WindSparrow - Mar 13, 2017 7:12:15 pm PDT #29419 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Mom~ma and cat~ma for you, Epic.