I'm not on the ship. I'm in the ship. I am the ship.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Jan 23, 2017 8:24:32 am PST #28846 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

askye, I feel your online dating woes. I wish these terrible experiences weren't so damn common. I have designed my profile to weed people out to the point where I'm not really getting messages much any more. It's a bit sad but better that than wasting my time with jerks. I have "feminist" front and center, for example.

Am feeling somewhat better, if not 100%. It's really messed with my appetite this weekend.


askye - Jan 23, 2017 9:06:16 am PST #28847 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I'm not on any medicine right now.

I'm pretty sure most of it is the current events. Today I think it's my nephew. I love him but when he is over there is no quiet. And he's exact date because mom and I played monopoly and Catan with him. But that increases the noise.

Almost non stop talking since about 9 this morning.

There a guy who is intelligent and seems nice and we are meeting up at some point next week.

And I have a coffee date Wednesday. That one I'm not sure about.

I keep getting guys who will message "hi how are you" every few days but don't create anyour conversation.


meara - Jan 23, 2017 10:27:13 am PST #28848 of 30002

I had a pointless online date last night--I try to usually give a little credit if I think someone is hot in one or two photos but not others--some folks are bad at picking photos or just plain not photogenic? But it was like, 10 seconds in person and I could see it was a no. I hate that.


Hil R. - Jan 23, 2017 8:11:47 pm PST #28849 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I got an MRI of my ankle done today, which I hope will show something useful, but staying still for that long is really not good for my joints. Ow.


WindSparrow - Jan 23, 2017 8:33:22 pm PST #28850 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ankle~ma, Hil.


sj - Jan 24, 2017 6:38:56 am PST #28851 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Feel better, Hil.

How is today only Tuesday?


SuziQ - Jan 24, 2017 6:47:12 am PST #28852 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I KNOW sj. For whatever reason I was sure this was Thursday when I woke up.

Which, this Thursday, not really looking forward to it as that is the celebration of life for our friend who took his life a few weeks back. CJ's Search and Rescue team will be there in force along with all the parents. My social anxiety is already ramping up.

And how come my social anxiety flares for some things and not others? I just applied to be the Training and Liaison Coordinator for Denver Comic Con. Tons of human interaction and me telling people what to do and fielding questions and it is LOTS. But I would really like the job. (Helps that the Volunteer Services Manager sent me the job description before posting it).


sj - Jan 24, 2017 7:05:01 am PST #28853 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

For whatever reason I was sure this was Thursday when I woke up.

Me too! Is something timey whimey happening?

Good luck, Suzi!


EpicTangent - Jan 24, 2017 7:10:01 am PST #28854 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

For whatever reason I was sure this was Thursday when I woke up.

Me too! Is something timey whimey happening?

Maybe it's just something Thursday in the air. Never could get the hang of Thursdays...

Good luck on both fronts, Suzi.


meara - Jan 24, 2017 8:33:09 am PST #28855 of 30002

Yesterday I sent an email saying "I want to have this done tomorrow (Wednesday)". And then had to send another email specifying that my brain was wishful thinking.