But she was naked! And all... articulate!

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Oct 27, 2016 6:41:23 pm PDT #27446 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Sounds like a good plan Laura. sorry you had to deal with such horrid behavior.

beekaytee - I'll just echo the rally?!

thanks askye -- I have met the other party once. he decided I wasn't worth speaking too. I try to stay out of things like this - unless someone starts it with me.

And we do have a some next steps at work and possibly a lot more time than I thought. so I am no longer filled with despair.


beekaytee - Oct 27, 2016 6:42:12 pm PDT #27447 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Taking space for your own grief is a gift to everyone who counts on you, Laura.

I am so, very sorry for your loss and the compounding of that loss.

Blessings of peace on your heart, my dear. My heart aches for you.


beekaytee - Oct 27, 2016 6:46:36 pm PDT #27448 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

beth, that really was my thought...after I stopped feeling betrayed.

She must have realized that she stepped in it because there were several messages, while I was working today, that amounted to, "Oh no! I haven't heard from you and I'm SO worried!!!! If I don't hear from you, I'm going to have to reach out to mutual friends, or whatever, to make sure you are okay.'

The demandy 'take care of MY feelings' spasm felt kind of bullying in itself.

Chillax lady. I have this. I always had it. Just didn't think I needed to pretend like it didn't effect me for your comfort.

Sheesh.


WindSparrow - Oct 27, 2016 8:56:37 pm PDT #27449 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Love and hairpats to them that wants 'em. Tried to say something more but couldn't spell it, nit even close enough to get help from spellcheck. So I had to go back and do with smaller words.

Tired and anxious about new job.


Laura - Oct 28, 2016 4:07:43 am PDT #27450 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

You got this, Andi! Seriously, it is clear that you have the skill set and temperament to excel in your new position.

Super serious diet mode. Yikes I put it on the last few days of eating and sitting around. Walked my poor neglected dog around the park a couple times to get it started. She was happy, my back not so much.


sj - Oct 28, 2016 4:14:39 am PDT #27451 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

WS, what Laura said. You're going to be great at this!

Super serious diet mode. Yikes I put it on the last few days of eating and sitting around. Walked my poor neglected dog around the park a couple times to get it started. She was happy, my back not so much.

I need to do this too. The recent weight gain is not helping with my pain or energy levels.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 28, 2016 6:05:21 am PDT #27452 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

The demandy 'take care of MY feelings' spasm felt kind of bullying in itself.

Chillax lady. I have this. I always had it. Just didn't think I needed to pretend like it didn't effect me for your comfort.

I swear, this is the most annoying thing ever. Don't make your fuckup MY PROBLEM, especially since I'm the victim of it! Ugh.


Aims - Oct 28, 2016 6:21:23 am PDT #27453 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Laura - that is some epic level bullshit. I am so, so sorry, love. People can be such asshats. Love to you, sweetheart.

Good morning, y'all. I'm trying to not hide from the beautiful day and wallow in my shit. Not sure how successful I'll be. I'm thinking maybe I should have worked today instead of taking it off.


Laura - Oct 28, 2016 6:28:24 am PDT #27454 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Trudging through my Friday, but thinking I am going to run out and vote. That should help.


sj - Oct 28, 2016 6:30:14 am PDT #27455 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm sorry, Aims. We're here to distract you!