bee, honestly, speaking from experience, don't wait. File the report immediately. Get a restraining order if you can. Tell your attorney to light a fire under his butt or you'll find another lawyer. Stop seeing your clients until this is taken care of, because his next step is to harass THEM. Never assume a person who keeps being irrationally furious like this isn't going to go even further. He might not be dangerous, but you should proceed as if he is.
Zoe: I thought you wanted to spend more time off-ship this visit. Wash: Out there is seems like it's all fancy parties. I like our party better. The dress code is easier and I know all the steps.
'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
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Zenkitty - Oct 25, 2016 5:55:35 pm PDT #27341 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Atropa - Oct 25, 2016 5:57:19 pm PDT #27342 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
He might not be dangerous, but you should proceed as if he is.
Yes. It's not worth playing the odds that he's not dangerous.
I hope this settles down for you as soon as it possibly can.
smonster - Oct 25, 2016 6:29:04 pm PDT #27343 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
What they all said. This is really urgent.
WindSparrow - Oct 25, 2016 6:59:39 pm PDT #27344 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Very concerned about you, Bee. It probably does not need to be said, but to the extent you take Zen's advice about not seeing clients, track every single appointment you put off to include in the civil suit against the guy.
Migraines definitely of the suck. I think at least I have moved into the hangover phase.
smonster - Oct 25, 2016 11:48:30 pm PDT #27345 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
WindSparrow, I hope the hangover ends soon and you feel better.
I went to bed five hours ago. I have not been able to sleep. I got up twice to spend quality time with the foam roller. I'm already leaving work early tomorrow for a doc's appt, so o really don't want to go in late or take the whole day, especially because we are behind where we want to be.
This sucks.
I really need to get back to yoga.
Jessica - Oct 26, 2016 4:26:39 am PDT #27346 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
I stayed home today to get a sofa delivered and the fucking thing was 2" too tall to fit through the hallway to the family room where it was supposed to be set up.
I've been waiting for this sofa since AUGUST (it's a Joybird, custom made) and now I'm sitting on it in the living room and I just want to cry. Compared to what other people are going through, this is nothing, but we haven't been able to use the family room since we moved, and it was supposed to be over today.
This sofa is really comfortable. Fuck it.
I guess I need to find a "we move furniture into your tiny East Village studio apartment" guy who's willing to come up to Westchester who can take the base off and shove it past the narrow turn.
lisah - Oct 26, 2016 5:18:26 am PDT #27347 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate
Ugh that's super frustrating, Jessica. Really hope you can figure out a way to make it work. We've been looking at Joybird for a new couch so I'll be interested to hear how you guys like it once you get it where it needs to be (optimist!).
WindSparrow - Oct 26, 2016 5:40:51 am PDT #27348 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Doesn't matter if it isn't serious as a heart attack, it still sucks, Jessica.
Thanks, smonster. I feel better. Here's hoping Jilli feels better too.
SuziQ - Oct 26, 2016 5:42:27 am PDT #27349 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Is it really only Wednesday morning? I already have 30 hours on my timesheet. And I'm ready for a nap before 9am.
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE let my flight home be on time (12 hours from now).
Jessica - Oct 26, 2016 6:14:35 am PDT #27350 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Ok, I called a guy and he said it's possible, if he takes the sofa apart and takes the light fixture out in that hallway (and then puts it back in the other room). He's going to get another guy and see when they can come back and do it. THIS IS GOING TO BE OKAY.