Oh yeah, that's part of it too--I feel so much better when the house is clean. But so hard to motivate to do it when it's not!
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It hasn't worked out for me, but I have known people that had buddy systems for house cleaning. Where they would join forces with a friend and do both places. One person may like laundry more than floors and/or kitchen more than baths so they split stuff up that way.
My motivation this year has been pretty much devoted into sobriety (10 months, 12 days!)
That is wonderful to read! Very proud of you. I know it ain't easy.
It is wonderful to see you here, Strix. And wonderful to see that you have progressed so far in your sobriety.
Thank you! The first months were hard, but I'm toddling along quite happily now WRT no pills. But sober, depressed and anxious is LOADS better than fucked up, depressed and anxious.
Glad to see you here, Strix, and I'm glad you're doing so well!
Very glad for the update Strix, though I wish sobriety had helped with the depression and anxiety. I've missed your pixels.
ION, I slept like utter CRAP last night. And work processes are running s...l...........o...................w so far this morning.
I overslept, and I'm kind of dizzy from fasting and don't really feel safe driving, so I'm watching a livestream of Yom Kippur services. This feels weird.
If anyone else wants to be at services and can't, or just is curious, livestream here: [link] It's a Reform synagogue, so the prayers are mostly in English, with a few Hebrew ones mixed in.
I hope you are able to break your fast and feel better soon, Hil.