Buffy: Dancing with you is way better than trying to hook up with some good-looking guy. Xander: I think I liked it more when you were kicking me in my puffy groin.

'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


lisah - Sep 03, 2016 5:13:08 am PDT #26196 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

Keeping your father-in-law and all your family in my thoughts, Cindy.


Hil R. - Sep 03, 2016 9:56:51 am PDT #26197 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Lots of good health vibes to your FIL, Cindy.

I'm trying to decide what I want to do today. Well, I already spent a while getting some work done, and I'll probably do a bit more of that. I also really need to clean my apartment, but I'm not sure if that's going to end up happening. I'm thinking about going to see "Blazing Saddles," but that will require actually getting dressed and driving and dealing with people, and a nap instead kind of seems like a good idea. But, getting outside would probably be good for me, too, and there's not too much walking involved in going to a movie.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 03, 2016 11:04:58 am PDT #26198 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Nora Deirdre - Sep 03, 2016 11:06:06 am PDT #26199 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Also, I'm so sorry Cindy, thinking about recovery and health for your FIL.


Hil R. - Sep 03, 2016 11:49:43 am PDT #26200 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I think I'm not going to see the movie tonight. I haven't gotten anywhere near enough sleep this week, and staying home and resting seems like a better idea. Maybe I'll go see it tomorrow.


SailAweigh - Sep 03, 2016 12:16:44 pm PDT #26201 of 30002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

So much strength and peace~ma to everyone struggling with mental health issues. Life really sucks, sometimes. May you all find that path back to equanimity in any way you can.

Cindy, I'm sorry to hear about the FiL; my best wishes to you and Scott. Health~ma to the FiL.

My daughter is finally scraping up the courage to make major changes in her life. She's going to be sending out her resume to salons in the Chicago area, so she's looking for reasonable digs in various areas that she finds acceptable with price, lifestyle, and safety. I'm hoping my Chicagoistas can give me a little advice on the following areas as to those criteria. This is the gist of what she copy and pasted into a text message, so the punctuation leaves a little to be desired:

Near south side has lots of condos. Affordable near museum park West town. Young and music hippy. Prices on the rise North center. Lots for adult entertainment. Near west side. Second most amenities.

If you can decipher that and possibly specify various neighborhoods, it would be greatly appreciated. She's hoping to keep expenses down, but thinks she could handle $1600/month. She'll be sharing with a cousin and they'd even do the one bedroom, make the living room the other, if that's what it takes. Alexia is at the top of her profession (she's completely outgrown the salon she's in and she's their best) and is currently bringing home $60-70k a year; I'm thinking she can probably make quite a bit more in the better salons in and around Chicago.

X-posted to Natter.


Pix - Sep 03, 2016 12:48:31 pm PDT #26202 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

Vibes and love to Buffistas and their families. Thinking about you


DavidS - Sep 03, 2016 3:54:12 pm PDT #26203 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm so sorry, Cindy. Holding your family in my thoughts.


erikaj - Sep 03, 2016 5:59:45 pm PDT #26204 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

This is a stupid thing that I get caught up in all time...I cancelled a contribution to something(Not that I still don't care about the Earth, but I think my finances are sort of being nickeled-and-dimed one recurrent donation at a time...need to rethink, you know?) But now I feel as though, you know, some little wolf cub is not going to eat cause I want to be in control of my ten dollars. Even though I know that Ellen Whatsis who signed my receipt doesn't really know me, I feel disappointing and had to talk myself out of it. Dumb, huh?ETA: Cindy, sorry about your FIL. ETA2: Anyone have a favorite green org that I should think about giving to? Check me out...Casey McCall moment. Except Casey would never allow a mass-produced e-receipt to occasion a guilt spiral.


Zenkitty - Sep 04, 2016 6:15:39 am PDT #26205 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Health~ma for your FiL, Cindy.

Ladystuff TMI: so I had the Mirena removed 7 weeks ago. Right after that I had a week of light, half-hearted bleeding and I thought well that's that. Nooo. The last two days I've been bleeding like I'm making up for lost time. Dammit, I guess I'm STILL not in menopause.