I'm sorry, Tep.
I know I can't help, but I wish I could. I hope the therapist you find is a good one who can, though.
Or maybe you could just be Buffy, he'll see your amazing heart, and he'll fall in love with you.
Xander ,'Get It Done'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
P.M. Marc - Sep 02, 2016 1:06:00 pm PDT #26187 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Steph L. - Sep 02, 2016 2:05:16 pm PDT #26188 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Steph, if you want some company for coffee or dinner or something, let me know. (Or if being around people would be too much, I totally get that, too.)
Thanks so much for the offer, but I haven't even gotten out of my jammies today. I have gotten some work done, and I have done the dishes, so I feel like I didn't waste the entire day. I keep trying to convince myself to at least walk to the corner and back (which is 1/2 mile round trip). But I would have to change to do that.
Hil R. - Sep 02, 2016 5:09:15 pm PDT #26189 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Online dating continues to be confusing. Why do people who live on other continents send me messages? Why do people click "like" on my profile, but then not respond when I send them a message? Why can I not find a photo that works? If I put up a photo that shows my body (in shorts and a tank top, not like a bikini or anything, and it's a really cute picture, I think), then I get all kinds of gross messages about my breasts, but if I put up a photo that just shows my face, then no one responds to any messages I send.
Topic!Cindy - Sep 02, 2016 7:24:58 pm PDT #26190 of 30002
What is even happening?
Hey Tep, Scott & I were both diagnosed with costochondritis in our 30s. Apparently, it's a thing.
Take a deep breath. You are at a good place in your life. Your boy loves carrots.
WindSparrow - Sep 02, 2016 7:26:29 pm PDT #26191 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Cindy, I'm saying a prayer for your father-in-law and for your whole family, too.
beth b - Sep 02, 2016 7:53:06 pm PDT #26192 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Sendig out the strength to you, Steph.
I do not need to argue with my neighbor on fb. I pointed out that the man cutting selfie sticks ( and smashing phones) was doing vandalism. I even suggested that he was at the felony level.
That is all I can do Some people will remain wrong on the internet
beth b - Sep 02, 2016 8:04:39 pm PDT #26193 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
good vibes to your fathein in law, Cindy
Calli - Sep 03, 2016 2:23:56 am PDT #26194 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Much health~ma for your FiL, Cindy.
Laura - Sep 03, 2016 4:35:48 am PDT #26195 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
Cindy, your FIL and family are in my thoughts and prayers. We hear a lot more success stories these days and I hope he has good treatments options.
lisah - Sep 03, 2016 5:13:08 am PDT #26196 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate
Keeping your father-in-law and all your family in my thoughts, Cindy.