It also sucks when everything you do gets labeled, but I'm not sure the answer to that is that everyone makes up their own name for everything. There is part of me that thinks that would be just peachy, but the part that, you know, does interviews thinks if that part takes over, she may have to add things to her own list, like "tongue-biting" or "eating your feelings." It's helpful to consider commonalities, but also "We ALL have limitations...I couldn't be a jockey." doesn't really help unless that really was your dream and you shot up six inches, don't have another goal yet and live with all the other would-be jockeys asking you to reach things and calling you stretch.
Hey, don't worry about it. Nest full of vampires, you come get me, okay. Box full of puppies, that's more of a judgement call.
Jonathan ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
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erikaj - Jul 30, 2016 10:15:18 am PDT #25637 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
sj - Jul 30, 2016 2:32:12 pm PDT #25638 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Things I need to let go of: that it takes TCG twice as long to feed ltc and it's twice as messy.
Laura - Jul 30, 2016 6:04:09 pm PDT #25639 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
Oh, so true, sj. On all 3 counts.
DavidS - Jul 30, 2016 7:42:47 pm PDT #25640 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Things I need to let go of: that it takes TCG twice as long to feed ltc and it's twice as messy.
Yeah, I'm sure it's true but you really need to let him have his own relationship and style with her. It won't be as efficient but they'll sort themselves out. You're playing the long game here. Short term losses for long term gains in intimacy and trust.
Topic!Cindy - Jul 31, 2016 7:06:05 pm PDT #25641 of 30002
What is even happening?
Hey, my istas. Just got back from vacation today and took a long dive into Natter and ita's thread, because my psyche still keeps trying to convince me she will be back.
Teppy, I'm sorry Tim got results that are worrisome to you. I hope he is okay and that the doctor is just being -- well, that way -- out of an abundance of caution.
sj, how is that gorgeous baby?
Hec, with my kids now 16, 17, and 20, I think you're largely right. What you just said to sj is something my mother said to me early on. If you want dh to help. you have to let him help in his way.
P.M. Marc - Jul 31, 2016 7:06:37 pm PDT #25642 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Hec, with my kids now 16, 17, and 20,
WHAT?
NOPE.
Topic!Cindy - Jul 31, 2016 7:27:09 pm PDT #25643 of 30002
What is even happening?
YOU'RE TELLING ME, PLEI.
Topic!Cindy - Jul 31, 2016 7:27:31 pm PDT #25644 of 30002
What is even happening?
How old is Princess Ticky Box?
P.M. Marc - Jul 31, 2016 10:24:56 pm PDT #25645 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
11?
Laura - Aug 01, 2016 2:38:09 am PDT #25646 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
So, I think my baby (22 in a couple weeks) has a girlfriend. Looks that way, maybe. He has always been a super social guy with lots of friends, but hasn't had a girlfriend, to my knowledge anyway. If so, she is a lucky girl because he is a lovely caring young man. She has been over a couple times in the last week going places with him. She is 6' tall! Considering the height of so many in my world she fits right in. Both my SILs are 6'. Anyway, if this is the case I am delighted.
eta: So I asked him this morning. He said as of 4 days ago they are dating. Woo! They have known each other a long time, but this is a change in status. Woo!