Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?

Zoe ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Jun 15, 2016 7:57:48 pm PDT #25025 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That is a lot of shit to shovel, smonster. None of that stuff is easy. But sometimes it's easier to shovel when you're singing a work song, and it's easier to sing a work song if there is more than one voice in the chorus.


meara - Jun 15, 2016 8:48:28 pm PDT #25026 of 30002

I love you smonster. Autocorrect wanted me to say "olive you". Which--if it's in a martini I support you having olives too. Because damn those situations sound shitty. My god.


Burrell - Jun 15, 2016 9:32:54 pm PDT #25027 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh smonster, that's hard. We are here for you

Speaking of olives and martinis, we need a big virtual happy hour. It's been a week.


smonster - Jun 16, 2016 12:11:40 am PDT #25028 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I am not here for olives. Hate 'em. But I appreciate the sentiment! I did have a glass of wine and a margarita last night.


beth b - Jun 16, 2016 1:52:54 am PDT #25029 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

wow - glad you can help ,smonster

rough times


Laura - Jun 16, 2016 2:25:20 am PDT #25030 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I'll take your olives, smonster! That is a lot of shit.

But sometimes it's easier to shovel when you're singing a work song, and it's easier to sing a work song if there is more than one voice in the chorus.

Indeed. Thank you all for being in my chorus.


beekaytee - Jun 16, 2016 3:40:25 am PDT #25031 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I'll tussle you for the olives, Laura. And thanks for the idea of a dental vacation. That honestly never occurred to me, but I've got a passport and a front tooth I broke on an apple 7 years ago, and spent tall dollars fixing again a couple of months ago. (I'll stow away in your luggage!)

Smonster, I'm sending a virtual hug your way. It is so lovely to see you recognize your own progress. You have really put in the work and your community benefits. Which I hope makes your heart stronger too.


askye - Jun 16, 2016 3:58:48 am PDT #25032 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Smonster sorry everything is piling on and I'm glad we here to make it a bit easier.


Zenkitty - Jun 16, 2016 5:54:41 am PDT #25033 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

What they all said, smonster. You're awesome. I'll have my martini up and dirty please.


EpicTangent - Jun 16, 2016 7:34:05 am PDT #25034 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

That is a lot of shit to shovel, smonster. None of that stuff is easy. But sometimes it's easier to shovel when you're singing a work song, and it's easier to sing a work song if there is more than one voice in the chorus.

As usual, Windsparrow expresses it beautifully.

That is a lot, smonster. It's so great to hear that you're strong enough to lend support to others, though. And that you're remembering to take care of yourself.

I know I'm not here that often, and I lurk more than I post, but I want to tell y'all how very much I love you and appreciate (everything).

And also stealing the words of smonster because she said what I wanted to say (and I'm a lazy writer), and reminded me that I don't say it often enough. I've never been what you would call prolific, and lately I'm barely more than a lurker; but I love you guys SO MUCH, friends in the glowy box.