I'm sorry, smonster.

I'm sorry too.

ugh, smonster.

Better today. We're behind on a project so there is more than normal pressure to go fast and micromanaging and stuff. Work is the same but I'm giving myself an attitude adjustment via Tara Brach podcasts. I need to remember those sooner.

Bleargh, smonster, but good on you for finding some coping mechanisms.

Someone - a fairly new hire who's the #2 in the office - came to me asking if we had a template/standard for something. After about the fifth repetition, she finally understood that no, we don't. eeesh

Work is stupid. You would think that working for myself it would be less so, but not so much. In theory I should be able to take a day off from time to time, but instead it ends up being working excessive hours. Oh well. Maybe seeing a light at the end of the tunnel, but at least a couple more weeks of triple time with the current project.

I do feel bad because I have a friend visiting from RI and I haven't had time to socialize. Fortunately she is self sufficient and comfortable enough to take my car and do stuff on her own.

Sing it, self-employed sister!

You'd think it would be less complicated. So absolutely not.

Yeah, one of my employees, who is normally awesome, just pulled the pin on a metaphorical grenade with a client and the whole thing landing in my lap.

Not what I needed. Now instead of this being a clean handoff to someone we use for additional design work because we are some busy at that point, I get to add it to my list of projects that I need to personally handle and make sure go smoothly so that the client feels taken care of. This is the opposite of lessening the load on me.

Oh, ND. That just sucks royally. I'm so sorry, because I can so completely relate to that frustration, though it is so much worse under your current circumstance.

My version of that this morning is dealing with a pet care client who saved money by having us do mid-day walks while he is out of town and having 'friends' take care of his delicate breed dog the rest of the time. They've injured his pet and are throwing my guy under the bus. The client HAS to know that they are lying, given the details, but instead of confronting them, or having us take over the rest of the services, he's forwarded the friends' emails to me to deal with.

I wish I could say this was an uncommon occurrence. It is so much the reverse, that I've included a clause in the client agreement to make sure everyone understands the limits of our liability. I sincerely understand why people split services like this, and I'd be the last person to say we are infallible, but this arrangement very rarely works out well for the pet.